Let's talk about being in LOVE

[Wiggs]

Why would you even consider this other girl when you said she is pregnant by some other guy?  She doesn't sound like she "Loves" you to me...  

She was waiting around for a while and kept trying to get me to break up with my wife.  I told her it wasn't fair for her to wait around for me and to move on with her life....We still kept in touch and talked but not as often.  It was then that I realized I truly loved her.  By then (this was over a period of about a year) I received that e-mail that she was prego....the guy is no longer in the picture.

[Option D]

who gives best head

[Camel Jockey]

I don't know.  I've been with my wife for so long.
She's a great woman from Germany.  We have no children though and I don't think she wants children (premarriage yes, post cheating no, together again never discussed)
I'm 29 she's 38.  I want one child that's it.

Trish
is 29 (our birthday's are a week apart)
She had the suicide deal. Comes from a broken, fucked up home from West Virginia.
Has been quite the skank in the past
I would consider a move to her to be very unstable. 

A kid with another guy, former alcoholic, and can be sometimes unstable.


My wife is def the safe bet.  So many things could go wrong with Trish but she owns me.

Former alcoholic and emotionally unstable white gal?

It isn't worth a divorce with a stable woman(consider monetary losses) to marry an unstable gal. After all, you don't want to make a huge decision regarding divorce just to be with a chick with whom it could fall apart anyways. Think about it.

You just might have bury the image of your heart's desire, but then again your wife is 9 years your senior.

[Wiggs]

who gives best head

Trish and I have never been together, I always made up an excuse because I knew because she was in my head and I got with her sexually, She would be "Mrs. Trish Wiggs"

[Wiggs]

Former alcoholic and emotionally unstable white gal?

It isn't worth a divorce with a stable woman(consider monetary losses) to marry an unstable gal. After all, you don't want to make a huge decision regarding divorce just to be with a chick with whom it could fall apart anyways. Think about it.

You just might have bury the image of your heart's desire, but then again your wife is 9 years your senior.

See what I mean?  It's all fucked up.

[Option D]

Trish and I have never been together, I always made up an excuse because I knew because she was in my head and I got with her sexually, She would be "Mrs. Trish Wiggs"

first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now

[CARTEL]

first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now

Unless that pussy was so good you could throw it into the air and it would come back down as sunshine.

Then he would be in the same predicament.

[Camel Jockey]

first mistake..should have boned her..then you wouldnt be thinking about her right now

Yeah, that's what he should do. But then again she's with child so it wouldn't any sort of conquest but just doing it for the sake of doing it.

I wouldn't be with a woman that wouldn't bear me any kids but then again I wouldn't swap that woman for an unstable alkie that's already had another man's kid.

I guess sometimes people can't help the way they feel and that really sucks. I can't even give a definitive answer to this. 

[CARTEL]

I can't even give a definitive answer to this. 

Don't beat yourself up, we're all a little crazy right now over this thread.

[Wiggs]

I've done it this long. 


My decision is to remain eternally tormented...I'm not manstrong enough to make such a decision.  I will just have to take this to the grave

I truly appreciate everyones' inputs.  (Even Goatboy)

I just don't see myself leaving my wife for something so unsure and I could never abandon Trish.  I will live with the heartache.  I will call her this weekend and let you know how it went.  Thanks


Wiggs

[webcake]

Bitches be crazy.....

[CARTEL]

Here Wiggs...

[tleilaxutank]

[Wiggs]

 

[webcake]

I've done it this long. 


My decision is to remain eternally tormented...I'm not manstrong enough to make such a decision.  I will just have to take this to the grave

I truly appreciate everyones' inputs.  (Even Goatboy)

I just don't see myself leaving my wife for something so unsure and I could never abandon Trish.  I will live with the heartache.  I will call her this weekend and let you know how it went.  Thanks


Wiggs

In all seriousness Wiggs, i hope this all works out for you. 

[Wiggs]

In all seriousness Wiggs, i hope this all works out for you. 

Thank you Webke.  I love you

I love you all

[CARTEL]

Thank you Webke.  I love you

I love you all

And I, you!

[pumpster]

Shit or get off the pot. The agony of not knowing ain't worth it.

Spend at least a weekend with her, get it over with. Just a short-term investment that won't ruin the existing situation. Either you'll become addicted and know what to do, or it will be a huge letdown that you couldn't have forseen.

Do it ya puzzy, just a few days will tell you a lot. 

[webcake]

Thank you Webke.  I love you

I love you all

I love you too, Wiggs. 

This is emotional!! 

I'm giving you a e-hug as we speak...

[emn1964]

ok, i think we delete this thread and NEVER speak of it again.

[jtsunami]

Solid advice from a solid poster. 

thx webcake, yes most problems can be solved simply if you ignore the moral laws of life.

jt

[TBUNZEE]

I agree with emn wtf is up with this thread?   Go run yourself a hot bath and make a cup of tea and get a copy of chicken noodle soup for a pussy's soul and chill....this thread is way gay....

[drkaje]

Wigga you gay!!

It had to be said, LOL!

Ask yourself a simple question: "Is it the idea of her I'm really in love with?". Most people aren't honest with themselves over stupid shit like. Someone gets depressed, bored or complacent and foolishly thinks changing partners will change them.

Also, having an emotional affair on your wife is wrong. The affection, feelings and other stuff is supposed to be for your wife. She'd probably rather you just bang some random bitch and be done with it than obsess over a relationship distance prevents.

[luvvsuNOT]

It's all about being happy, man    

Actually, no. Sometimes doing the right thing takes priority over your own personal happiness. I'm not saying this applies in this case but sometimes you have to sacrifice and do the right, courageous and honorable thing and not just think of yourself. Can you think of any instance in which you would sacrifice even your life for a greater good? Say for your country or for another person?

Wiggs took a vow for better and for worse. People like to say that people divorce too easily. Actually, I think they get married too easily. Like it's just something to do and pledging your word of honor and make a vow for a life long commitment is just words. Maybe it is. Maybe your words of honor means nothing.

Before someone gets married they better think long and hard if they want to really make a life long committment. That's why I live alone in an attic with a family that has yet to discover I there. They still think it's rats shuffling along at night when I get up to pee out the window.

[calfzilla]

just jack off before seing that girl, I am 100% sure that she wont affect you as much after that

Great advice.