dating question serious thread

[NaturalWonder83]

i am going on a date this weekend w/ a girl i met

my question is about my car
right now my car is flithy...its coated in filth so thick i can draw things in the filth w/ my fingers
i have bags of water bottles and old nasty shaker cups in the back seat
and i have a big pile of clothes in the back and front seat

when i pick her up in my car-how clean should it be?
i know to clean out the inside-but should i vacumm like a madman and polish the dashboard w/ those wipes? use air freshner tree? get the outside washed?

my concern is that she will notice that my car looks like it was washed and that will seem kinda dorky? like im going out of my way to impress her?
am i crazy?
please help

[webcake]

Nothing wrong with a clean car. I am very fussy with my car and it is always spotless.

But be yourself, natural. If you don't normally clean your car, then don't do it. She will accept you for who you are.....not what you do.

[NaturalWonder83]

Nothing wrong with a clean car. I am very fussy with my car and it is always spotless.

But be yourself, natural. If you don't normally clean your car, then don't do it. She will accept you for who you are.....not what you do.

i think im gonna clean out the inside
and get it washed tomm so by sat it will look normal

[webcake]

i think im gonna clean out the inside
and get it washed tomm so by sat it will look normal

Good idea.

It will look neutral by then. Not too clean.....not too dirty.

Good luck!!

[NaturalWonder83]

Good idea.

It will look neutral by then. Not too clean.....not too dirty.

Good luck!!

yes i hope so
thank u

[tonymctones]

i thought you where engaged? to answer your question take it to a oil change place that gives free car washes with oil change and just pull all your shit out and throw those shakers away GOD knows how bad those stink up your car if left in there.

[NaturalWonder83]

i thought you where engaged? to answer your question take it to a oil change place that gives free car washes with oil change and just pull all your shit out and throw those shakers away GOD knows how bad those stink up your car if left in there.

engaged-not anymore
those things are the worst-i hate the smell-luckily i dont think theyre smelling up my car
i havent gone to a car wash in a while and the oil place sounds cheapr than a reg car wash thanx

[tonymctones]

engaged-not anymore
those things are the worst-i hate the smell-luckily i dont think theyre smelling up my car
i havent gone to a car wash in a while and the oil place sounds cheapr than a reg car wash thanx

no problem

you may not smell it or you may be used to it, my truck constantly either smelled like chocolate protein powder or nasty ass shaker neither one really bothered me and i didnt really notice but when ppl got in my truck they would always say "whats that smell?" LOL so better safe then sorry.

[pumpster]

Avoid being in the car as much as possible. Even if "clean" by previous standards, it sounds like a pile of shyte that cleaning ain't gonna completely erase. That will reflect badly on you.

[NaturalWonder83]

no problem

you may not smell it or you may be used to it, my truck constantly either smelled like chocolate protein powder or nasty ass shaker neither one really bothered me and i didnt really notice but when ppl got in my truck they would always say "whats that smell?" LOL so better safe then sorry.

yeah i completely know what youre talking about-im gonna shampoo my seats tomm to be safe

Avoid being in the car as much as possible. Even if "clean" by previous standards, it sounds like a pile of shyte that cleaning ain't gonna completely erase. That will reflect badly on you.

lol agreed

[Nordic Beast]

what happened to the fiance Gene

[NaturalWonder83]

what happened to the fiance Gene

when we lived together things just went to crap and we had issues w/ spending time w/ eachothers families and my lack of money and good job-im happy w/ the split though

[chaos]

when we lived together things just went to crap and we had issues w/ spending time w/ eachothers families and my lack of money and good job-im happy w/ the split though

Got any naked pics of her you want to share? 

[windsor88]

Got any naked pics of her you want to share? 

lol...that's a good idea.

[NaturalWonder83]

Got any naked pics of her you want to share? 

im sorry i dont chaos-i know where her condo is-i can take photos of her going about her daily life if u want-like when she is going to work in the morning or bringing groceries in

[kiwiol]

im sorry i dont chaos-i know where her condo is-i can take photos of her going about her daily life if u want-like when she is going to work in the morning or bringing groceries in

LMAO!

[Princess L]

i am going on a date this weekend w/ a girl i met

my question is about my car
right now my car is flithy...its coated in filth so thick i can draw things in the filth w/ my fingers
i have bags of water bottles and old nasty shaker cups in the back seat
and i have a big pile of clothes in the back and front seat

 


Geez, you really are a slob aren't you ~ and I mean that in a most respectful way.  Lord knows what could be growing in there 

when i pick her up in my car-how clean should it be?
i know to clean out the inside-but should i vacumm like a madman and polish the dashboard w/ those wipes? use air freshner tree? get the outside washed?

  Yes to all ~ well, maybe not the tree - use something neutral

my concern is that she will notice that my car looks like it was washed and that will seem kinda dorky? like im going out of my way to impress her?
am i crazy?
please help

Wash the damn car 
It won't look any more dorky than taking a shower and wearing clean clothes.

But be yourself, natural. If you don't normally clean your car, then don't do it. She will accept you for who you are.....not what you do.

Disagree.
Totally disrespectful if she gets into a dirty car - especially the inside.

[NaturalWonder83]

ok-thank u princess

[tonymctones]

 


Geez, you really are a slob aren't you ~ and I mean that in a most respectful way.  Lord knows what could be growing in there 

ahhh come on thats not to bad i have about 3 water bottles rolling around my floor board right now and about 4 dress shirts that have been in there for a week or so that need to go to the cleaners I dont do the shakers anymore though b/c damn that can seriously stink up a car.

[Princess L]

ahhh come on thats not to bad i have about 3 water bottles rolling around my floor board right now and about 4 dress shirts that have been in there for a week or so that need to go to the cleaners

That's not too bad  huh 

He said "i have bags of water bottles and old nasty shaker cups in the back seat
and i have a big pile of clothes in the back and front seat"  Yikes



Gene, read this.
It's really long, but worth it.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/how-to-pimp-out-your-car-in-one-day/

[tonymctones]

That's not too bad  huh 

He said "i have bags of water bottles and old nasty shaker cups in the back seat
and i have a big pile of clothes in the back and front seat"  Yikes



Gene, read this.
It's really long, but worth it.
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/how-to-pimp-out-your-car-in-one-day/

LOL hahahahah well iono not by my standards really again the shaker is where i draw the line but the water bottles and clothes those can pile up without you really noticing.

[BayGBM]

You have got to clean up:  your life!

Your car sounds (not surprisingly) like the apartment/bedroom you described.  Remember, the one with bed bugs, the one that was “very cluttered and had forks and receipts and an empty peanut butter jar or 2 on it and a lot of spilled protein powder.”  How can you live like that?  What kind of woman do you think is going to stick around for that sort of thing?  I bet you have a lot of first dates—and that’s all.

Clean the inside of your car!  It should be spotless; anything you have to have in your car can be placed in the trunk (out of sight).  The exterior of the car should be washed as well; preferably on the same day that you pick her up.  If your date is Saturday night then wash it Saturday afternoon so it has plenty of time to dry.  Do not go from the car wash straight to pick her up.

Have you been laundering your sheets regularly?  If it is really a bother you can get away with washing them every other week, but it absolutely should not go any longer than that.

Good luck with your date.

[jtsunami]

im sorry i dont chaos-i know where her condo is-i can take photos of her going about her daily life if u want-like when she is going to work in the morning or bringing groceries in

LOL plz do

[Faust]

im sorry i dont chaos-i know where her condo is-i can take photos of her going about her daily life if u want-like when she is going to work in the morning or bringing groceries in

Good idea.

[webcake]

im sorry i dont chaos-i know where her condo is-i can take photos of her going about her daily life if u want-like when she is going to work in the morning or bringing groceries in

Good idea natural.

This way we can all decide if she is worthy of dating you....