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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #75 on: February 14, 2009, 07:32:25 PM »
Here is why that is in ERROR.

Neither you nor I nor 99% of the population is Famous. So your rules dont apply to 99.9% of guys.

Also how many girls end up getting married to a famous guy? NOT many, so according to your list less then .5% of females in this country will find the #1 thing on YOUR list.

How can that be the #1 criteria on your list if the vast majority of girls never even have a chance at it?




By "famous" I mean anything from being popular in highschool to being a rock star or famous movie star.


Women would marry famous people if they could, but with our laws and all...only 1 per famous person.  ::)


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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #76 on: February 14, 2009, 07:41:53 PM »
MORE FACTS FROM LIBERALISMO:



1. Black women like muscle on men more than white women.




2. If any of you have read books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It's all Bullshit. It's all bullshit written by delusional socially inept male chauvinists.  In fact, when I see or hear Neil Strauss my "gaydar" is ringing off at high alert. He seems like a closet case to me. My opinion is that he wrote the book mostly for money, and the majority of it is made up or over exaggerated or borrowed stories. All bullshit.



3. Getting to know how to talk to girls (or guys) is like anything else and requires practice. Most so called "Pickup Artists" simply make up some odd strategy and think that it is what helps them, but the TRUTH is that their persistence and optimism are what make their success. If you start talking to people, even with some weird strategy like making fun of them to get them to like you (so called "negs" in pickup artist lingo), many will still connect with you if you have even a little charisma and confidence.



4. Getting involved with people requires friend groups. This means that women are less likely to date a guy if he doesn't belong to a "friend group" that they are familiar with, and if he's an "outsider". Some guy sitting alone at a bar will almost never get approached by anyone, especially not women. But a guy who "injects" himself into a group of friends at a bar will have much higher success rates of connecting with women (or whoever). This is about "in group"/ "out group" psychology and dynamics.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #77 on: February 14, 2009, 08:13:58 PM »
MORE FACTS FROM LIBERALISMO:



1. Black women like muscle on men more than white women.




2. If any of you have read books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It's all Bullshit. It's all bullshit written by delusional socially inept male chauvinists.  In fact, when I see or hear Neil Strauss my "gaydar" is ringing off at high alert. He seems like a closet case to me. My opinion is that he wrote the book mostly for money, and the majority of it is made up or over exaggerated or borrowed stories. All bullshit.



3. Getting to know how to talk to girls (or guys) is like anything else and requires practice. Most so called "Pickup Artists" simply make up some odd strategy and think that it is what helps them, but the TRUTH is that their persistence and optimism are what make their success. If you start talking to people, even with some weird strategy like making fun of them to get them to like you (so called "negs" in pickup artist lingo), many will still connect with you if you have even a little charisma and confidence.



4. Getting involved with people requires friend groups. This means that women are less likely to date a guy if he doesn't belong to a "friend group" that they are familiar with, and if he's an "outsider". Some guy sitting alone at a bar will almost never get approached by anyone, especially not women. But a guy who "injects" himself into a group of friends at a bar will have much higher success rates of connecting with women (or whoever). This is about "in group"/ "out group" psychology and dynamics.

Actually no. They don't. If the dude is white, typically more thick or obese black women like muscular men. For the most part black women like in shape dudes. White chicks seem to  like muscular black men, I think it more to do with the whole "Black Stud" thing. 

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #78 on: February 14, 2009, 08:18:34 PM »
Actually no. They don't. If the dude is white, typically more thick or obese black women like muscular men. For the most part black women like in shape dudes. White chicks seem to  like muscular black men, I think it more to do with the whole "Black Stud" thing. 


I think you watch to much T.V.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #79 on: February 14, 2009, 08:28:28 PM »
They want

1) A fun guy
2) Good at sex
3) Good around women and who can communicate well
4) money
5) goodlooking

Hmm...I kind of agree with this list.  In regards to #4, put in "packin'" instead of money.  Actually, move "packin" up to #3. ;) 

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #80 on: February 14, 2009, 08:50:46 PM »
MORE FACTS FROM LIBERALISMO:







3. Getting to know how to talk to girls (or guys) is like anything else and requires practice. Most so called "Pickup Artists" simply make up some odd strategy and think that it is what helps them, but the TRUTH is that their persistence and optimism are what make their success. If you start talking to people, even with some weird strategy like making fun of them to get them to like you (so called "negs" in pickup artist lingo), many will still connect with you if you have even a little charisma and confidence.



There's alot of truth to that. It really is practice i.e. large amounts of social interaction, that improves you in that area.

Take a young man, just dropped out of high school...quiet and a loner for the most part.

He decides to join the traveling circus and they put him in front a booth and tell him he needs to attract people to his area so the carnival can make more money.

Come back and see him about 10 years later, that guy will be fucking great.

All that social practice..convincing people to come to his booth will have made him a great performer and an exceptionally smooth talker.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #81 on: February 14, 2009, 10:52:35 PM »
I have to give you credit for that, you told me this.
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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #82 on: February 14, 2009, 11:05:33 PM »
I guess only the guys who like girls.
Do you really think changing yourself  to make "girls" happy is going to bring your fufillment in life?

Like Alex said there are a lot of insecure tools in this thread.

Although I suppose that is expected on a bodybuilding website.

Enjoy being whipped...  ::)

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #83 on: February 15, 2009, 01:31:34 PM »
Do you really think changing yourself  to make "girls" happy is going to bring your fufillment in life?

Like Alex said there are a lot of insecure tools in this thread.

Although I suppose that is expected on a bodybuilding website.

Enjoy being whipped...  ::)

not only will changing yourself to make girls happy not work, it will make you feel odd and people will be able to tell you are acting not yourself very easily.  It is like when guys try to act tough that really aren't tough ...

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #84 on: February 15, 2009, 02:57:20 PM »
exactly these guys saying looks are the most important are clueless

looks are important but all they do is get your foot in the door, no chick stays with a guy longer than a first date just because he's hot

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i agree, its just an icebreaker.
A hottie would rather be introduced or meet a goodlooking guy than someone hideous.

Ill probably get flamed for this but at times random chicks approach me in clubs, but if i don't act right they sure as hell won't stay. No matter how goodlooking they think i am.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #85 on: February 15, 2009, 03:00:01 PM »
i agree, its just an icebreaker.
A hottie would rather be introduced or meet a goodlooking guy than someone hideous.

Ill probably get flamed for this but at times random chicks approach me in clubs, but if i don't act right they sure as hell won't stay. No matter how goodlooking they think i am.

wha do they normally say when they approach you?

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #86 on: February 15, 2009, 03:09:47 PM »
wha do they normally say when they approach you?

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"hi, my friend fancies you...shes just over there *points to her*"

"hi, you dance pretty good (i cant dance). Where are you from"

Another one grabbed my ass and said I was smoking hot, we chatted and i got her number.

It happens sometimes, im not a babe magnet but im not ugly either.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #87 on: February 15, 2009, 05:55:35 PM »
All things being equal height matters A LOT to women!  So does having a full head of hair.   Money only matters to the women who don't have any.  And even if you have money it still matters what you do with it.  I've dated several wealthy women.........why would they be interested in something they already have?  Women want new experiences, something to brag to their friends about.  They want to think because they are dating you they are different than all their girlfriends.  If it takes a personality, money, height, good looks or any other feature to pull it off that's all that matters.  Saying money matters more than looks or looks matter more than personality is useless and does not reflect reality. 

Let me put it another way..........women would much rather have a guy who's closer to average in all departments than one extreme or the other.  I.e. some ugly rich guy with no game might land a decent broad here and there.  Same with some jobless model with no brain.  But the guy who is financially independent, good looking, tall, full head of hair, smart, great personality..........wel l ..........women are constantly trying to find the PERFECT ONE.......lol hence why so many are miserably single.  Just go to any online dating website.  Look at all the never married women and their page upon page description of who their "perfect match" would be.  Women live in a fairy tale anyways! 



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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #88 on: February 15, 2009, 05:57:02 PM »
I hate to say it but most of the time the last thing that a girl cares about is how a guys is built or looks. I see many hot girls daily with average to below average looking guys.

I do to.

Its called "a cry for help!"

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #89 on: February 15, 2009, 06:01:24 PM »
Do you really think changing yourself  to make "girls" happy is going to bring your fufillment in life?

Like Alex said there are a lot of insecure tools in this thread.

Although I suppose that is expected on a bodybuilding website.

Enjoy being whipped...  ::)

What if I dont have to change?

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #90 on: February 15, 2009, 06:22:42 PM »
 A big cock.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #91 on: February 16, 2009, 08:51:32 AM »
Girls don't even no what they want so how the hell should we know.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #92 on: February 16, 2009, 08:53:50 AM »
Who cares what they want,we'll all end up with someone

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #93 on: February 16, 2009, 10:17:23 AM »
Girls don't even no what they want so how the hell should we know.

Women live in a fairy tail. Well most of them.

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« Reply #94 on: February 16, 2009, 10:41:26 AM »
Who cares what they want,we'll all end up with someone
Not true! I have seen people who have been single their whole lives up until their 60's and it scares the living shit out of me!

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #95 on: February 16, 2009, 10:45:46 AM »
money/ you do what they want/ looking like their sexotype (ex: little bald men with green t shirt, tall squeletic men with short).

don' ask me why but it's the fact.   
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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #96 on: February 16, 2009, 10:48:12 AM »
Women like men who make them feel good about themselves.....make them feel safe and that make them feel sexy.  They like a guy who is independent and strong but that also has the ability to be understanding of their quirks.  A guy that is not overly possessive or insecure about himself.  If you know how to do that and you are not an ugly fool then you should have problem drawing women.  Thats said, even if you are not the best looking guy, if you know how to do the things listed above you will get women.

Also, those who think all women are money grubbing whores, probably are immature or deal with women who are money grubbing whores because they don't attract the ones with more to offer.  22 year old Jessica the club whore is going to be a skank.....you don't meet good women at places like clubs and such. 

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #97 on: February 16, 2009, 10:56:24 AM »
it's not about drawing women only, it's about keeping em when they re worth it too.

all i have to say to the single losers on here is, keep trying, you might understand one or two things in the process.


But i agree that if you re just with a woman for her looks you re going to fail every single time. Again not everyone is able to understand that and
what really matters.

I understood this at 20 y/o while it took 8 more years for my bigger brother to figure it out.


It depends on what your goals are.  If you don't want to setle down, drawing women is the objective.  Not everyone wants to keep a women for an extended period of time at a young age.  Some guys want to live life and settle down later. Which is totally cool if you are upfront and respectful with women about it.

I'm glad you found love so early.   I waited until I was three years out of college to decide on "the one".

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #98 on: February 16, 2009, 11:05:33 AM »
Comfort, confidence, security. If you can bring that to the table you got women.

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Re: The Final Word: What girls want.
« Reply #99 on: February 16, 2009, 11:13:16 AM »
it may be wise to listen to what flagadajones has to say about it bitches.