nycbull has some good points.
and despite the bs that you can get anywhere in life if you just 'work hard' enough ( ), the fact is is that what seperates those in the highest places from the hordes of others who have the same exact qualities and potential is that they indeed DID get alot of breaks and luck along the way, being in the right place at the right time.
I don't agree. What separates those who have potential and skill from the people with the same skills in the highest places, is the fact that the people in the highest places maximize their opportunities, while others tell themselves "they can't do it" or "it's to risky". Most of the time people like that are just to lazy to go above and beyond. Sure some people are born into great situations, but the successful ones strive to follow their dreams. I know many a trust fund baby that are total failure at life. maybe they are rich due to luck, but from a performance standpoint and from a career standpoint they are garbage. Who wants to be thought of like that?
My brother is a perfect example of this. The guy is an extremely talented artist. His work is awesome. Instead of maximizing his potential, and soaring with his strengths, he chooses to work his 9-5 because art is "to risky" and he has "other things to do". Why not pursue his art career in his spare times on the weekends - instead of sitting around pulling his pud? Thats what separates the winners from the people with the same talent and skill.....they have the drive and the will to soar with the strengths.
To claim Arnold is what he is due to his breaks and d-bol is laughable. Look at pro bb's today. The most successful of them couldn't hold a candle to Arnold's money or power. Imagine doing what Arnold did 30 years ago when no one even knew what bb was, nevermind coming over from a foreign country with a little money from some schmoe.
If what Arnold did was so easy, why has no one in the BB industry even done 1/10th of what he has? Knowing how to maximize your opportunity and how to befriend the correct people to get ahead is a skill. Do you know how many people I am friends with that I hate? From a growth standpoint, it's important to know who to invest time with and who to steer clear off. Then when that person gives you your shot, you drop the hammer on whatever you do best and you kick ass. Thats how you win. Skill, smarts, relationships, vision, drive and the ability to take risks. The average worker is perfectly happy putting in 40% effort to get buy and being lazy as fuck.
I know plenty of winners who are not rich nor famous....but they are very happy, they do what they love well and they have successful relationships with other people.