Ejaculation promotes energetic and physical manifestations on the earth plane when they are done with the simultaneous release of an ideas at the moment of orgasm. It also enhances the receptive ability of the mind when doing hyperspace work. It is the stopping of any orgasmic activity that builds kundalini energy, however, this is different for each individual. It depends on the genetic structure and the inborn kundalini potential for that lifetime.
In the non-physical sense, gender is an illusion. It then becomes a matter of polarization of frequencies. That is what determines the genetic gender in physical reality. Homosexual relationships are used in Illuminati ritual ceremony and are designed to boost the male energy as like repels like, so the energy builds in each of the bodies. However, even if one "thinks" they are female, that does not change the energetic charge in a genetically male body. You are still male.