tip of the day ''totally free from ego''

[Eisenherz]

he must not be all that interested, or just a total pussy...

Call me old-fashioned... but a woman should never chase or heavily pursue a man, IMO. Goes against the natural order of things.

I dunno, wouldnt describe myself as being a total pussy, but sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.
The whole "woman should never pursue" I think is BS, it just shows they cant go after what they want either, or are just fucking arrogant.
But thats just me.

[clued-up]

*ego*.. as in an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others.. is bad.. and it will interfere with every aspect of your life in a negative way.

destroy it.

[INSOMNIA]

I dunno, wouldnt describe myself as being a total pussy, but sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.
The whole "woman should never pursue" I think is BS, it just shows they cant go after what they want either, or are just fucking arrogant.
But thats just me.

I hear you..

I said chase or 'heavily' pursue... IMO, it shouldnt be done. Nothing wrong with a girl showing an interested guy that the feeling is mutual.

Thought a woman's point of view on this subject might be helpful 

[clued-up]

sometimes it can be intimidating going after a very attractive chick that you fancy.

in what way are you intimidated?

[Eisenherz]

in what way are you intimidated?

Dont act like you dont know.
When you go to talk to a chick you find interesting and then your mind hits a blank creating an extremely awkward moment and the interaction ends with "haha nice meeting you kthnxbye".
Happens rarely but when it does it sucks and leaves anxiety about future approaches.

[clued-up]

Dont act like you dont know.

I honestly dont have that problem.. at all.

you are shooting yourself in the foot.. the one who mentioned * a man goes after what he wants* was dead on.

a woman wants a man thats capable... in a variety of ways.

if you aren't even capable of having an exchange of dialog.. what message do you think that sends to the woman?

you project nothing but awkward fear and nervous energy.. and that is not a desirable quality in a man.

I mean.. its just a woman... what are you scared of?

if you cant even talk to her.. then how will you do anything else?

a woman wants you to take her... take her mind.. and take her body.

there is nothing to fear. she is a person.. who you want.. so act like it.

my advice would be to treat your anxiety... because you really shouldn't introduce yourself to a woman you're interested in.. overcome with anxiety.

anxiety = incompetent.. that's the way it will translate in her mind.. even if she doesn't realize why - she will lose interest.

unless she happens to have more baggage than you 

 

[Eisenherz]

unless she happens to have more baggage than you 
 

I think you are spot on, the above goes for every woman I've been with lulz.

[INSOMNIA]

I honestly dont have that problem.. at all.

you are shooting yourself in the foot.. the one who mentioned * a man goes after what he wants* was dead on.

a woman wants a man thats capable... in a variety of ways.

if you aren't even capable of having an exchange of dialog.. what message do you think that sends to the woman?

you project nothing but awkward fear and nervous energy.. and that is not a desirable quality in a man.

I mean.. its just a woman... what are you scared of?

if you cant even talk to her.. then how will you do anything else?

a woman wants you to take her... take her mind.. and take her body.

there is nothing to fear. she is a person.. who you want.. so act like it.

my advice would be to treat your anxiety... because you really shouldn't introduce yourself to a woman you're interested in.. overcome with anxiety.

anxiety = incompetent.. that's the way it will translate in her mind.. even if she doesn't realize why - she will lose interest.

unless she happens to have more baggage than you 

 

James speaks the truth!!! Preach on!!! 

[kiwiol]

Call me old-fashioned... but a woman should never chase or heavily pursue a man, IMO.

There are some who disagree

[INSOMNIA]

There are some who disagree

yea. and see how that one worked out?? 

[clued-up]

James speaks the truth!!! Preach on!!! 

I should really talk about sex itself.. I could say a lot.. its one of my favorite activities.

maybe when i take another break.. museum quality artwork doesn't paint itself.. so I must be off to paint for a while 

[kiwiol]

yea. and see how that one worked out?? 

I'd say it was a happy ending, what with them wanting to kill each other and all, like a lot of married couple do a few years down the line...

[EL Mariachi]

Have you tried any of the mantras he suggests? I did and they work...I did Japa i believe it's called with the sound KLEEM. Supposedly it's for attracting women but it can be used for all thing material as well. It felt as if all the stress in the world melted off of my mind and I was "washed" in pure peace..It totally changed my outward aura and people notice it. That may be the "attractive force" you project and women notice it.

hmm are you sure it wasnt just the meditation that made the change? today i tried the sound AAHH, didnt like it and continued soundless meditation. you sure about the sound? how long have you been meditating?

[Sarcastic Deity]

It was Manson's ego that provoked his followers to do the action for him...Manson thought he could be a rock star...And was crushed because he got turned down(just once)...And sent his people to the house of the man who turned him down to kill...

hhaha..i'll bet melcher got the shivers when he figured out what'd happened   

[kyomu]

I'm not sure that its possible to get rid of your ego, maybe for brief moments, so I think what he says is good, watch your ego and dont be defined by it.

Spot on.
This guy dont understand what the budism is.

In the budism, there is no such a thing like instruccion.

About ego, Its totaly impossible to get rid of it. HOW CAN THE EGO GET RID OF THE EGO ITSELF?

Give it up the stupid doctrine and live your life. Whatever you do, you win and lose. Its depend on the point of view.

About Taoism and Budism, When you are far from Budism, you are more budist.

[hipolito mejia]

If theres a site that needs that advice is this one....


If we could get folks like Flex Wheeler, G. Kovaks and Bob (laughing-on-the-way-to-that-bank-) Chickerillo to read it and use it in their lives.

Imagine Flex Wheeler "totally free from ego".  lol

1-Ego its just the icing of the cake"

2-You can't turn a chihuauhua in to a pitbull by inflating his ego.

3-Everybody wants to be a bb, but nobody wants to do it EGO free".

4-I dont knock on doors ...etc,etc