....if you don't want them to end up like me then be there for them during there formative years and don't be a absentee father who comes back into your life like 20-25 years later and THEN tells you how dissappointed he is with you
just think of me when you think of leaving your wife or (in my case) common law wife to raise a son
btw, i'm not to found of my c unt mother either