I'm not asking about a court ruling. I want to hear personal opinions. A group is being denied by law something which is granted to others. That is the very definition of inequitable treatment. Doesn't that strike you as un-American?
Not really. This group isn't being denied anything. Marriage is defined as a union between a man and a woman in all but four states. I'll use my home state (Florida), for example.
If you're a guy, you must bring a woman to the court or to the church to get hitched.
If gays dudes forfeit that, because they'd rather do the Brokeback, that's their problem, not that of the state or the country.
You can't claim that someone being denied something, until you CLEARLY DEFINE what that something is. And that's what's at stake: The definition of marriage, itself.