Dude, you seem like a good guy, but I think you have an unrealistic perception of yourself. Dude you need a make over immediately, just cause you have a six pack doesn't mean your good looking. The eyebrow waxing thing is just terrible grow that shit out, stop wearing all those gimmicky flashy clothes its so out, go to buy some stuff from Hugo Boss, Donna Karen, Armani (not AX), they make really cool tight fitting shirts that don't look like grafiti and shit. Stop greasing your hair to your forehead wear it more natural, stop tanning every day, put on some weight. If you do these things I bet things will be a whole lot better for you, your a stripper and a personal trainer, you should literally have chicks lining up by the mile with these two gigs... stop telling yourself that girls are intimidated by you cause you look good, thats absolute bullshit, there are plenty of confident girls out there trust me, I'm a bartender, and I get plenty of chicks that approach me and give me #'s everytime I work, sure there are some girls that tell me that they thought I would be cocky or full of myself based on how I look, but they are pleasantly surprised that I'm the complete opposite, don't act like your the shit, just be who you are and stop trying too hard. Another thing, I lived in Vegas for a year, and you wouldn't do any better there trust me, If you are a decent looking guy and have good game you can get chicks anywhere, NY, Chicago, LA.... seriously bro, I hope you take this the right way.