You dont get to dictate the flow, especially once you've shown yourself to be non-complient...
He did defuse the situation...by using his taser
A routine speeding ticket made into an ordeal simply for the fact that she couldn't just sign the ticket and be on her way...
You, along with most cops and former cops, are a dick. When tazers first came out, they were supposed to be used as substitues for deadly force, reducing the situstions in which a cop might fire his gun. Instead, they started to be used to "gain compliance" in situations where an officer's safety was
never at risk. Essentially, legalized torture if you don't jump to a cop's liking. Prior to tazers, it wasn't okay for a cop to hit you with his billy club if you were mouthing off at him or not moving fast enough unless his safety was at risk... what's changed? We've created a totalitarian police state by allowing this bullshit. You're old enough to remember a time when things were different, so you know what I'm talking about.