Author Topic: This board's women's priorities in 'dating' men... (Read 6548 times)

Deicide · « **on:** June 16, 2009, 12:29:48 PM »

Numbered from 1-10.

Example: 1. Money, 2. Looks, 3. Penis Size, 4. Body, 5. Personality, 6. Humour, 7. Kind of Job, 8. Generosity, 9. Kindness 10. Neatness

Discuss....

Hereford · « **Reply #1 on:** June 16, 2009, 01:49:13 PM »

I'll back you up dude...

1. Money
2. Looks
3. Body
4. Personality
5. Social Network
6. Profession
7. Tolerance
8. Humor
9. Ambition
10. Character

Chicks don't really care about penis size.. nor do they care about how generous or kind a guy is, unless we are talking about his credit card...

Deicide · « **Reply #2 on:** June 16, 2009, 01:51:48 PM »

Quote from: Hereford on June 16, 2009, 01:49:13 PM

I'll back you up dude...

1. Money
2. Looks
3. Body
4. Personality
5. Social Network
6. Profession
7. Tolerance
8. Humor
9. Ambition
10. Character

Chicks don't really care about penis size.. nor do they care about how generous or kind a guy is, unless we are talking about his credit card...

It was just an example. I am sure it varies from female to female.

Hereford · « **Reply #3 on:** June 16, 2009, 02:51:42 PM »

Well, why post a list then if it is 100% variable?

Migs · « **Reply #4 on:** June 16, 2009, 03:29:13 PM »

must refrain from smart assed bitter response.......

w8m8 · « **Reply #5 on:** June 17, 2009, 06:19:59 AM »

I assume "dating" in quotes = not just a cup of tea and stroll in the park

taking picks from all that's mentioned and placing the ones which are pertinent in order .. and adding another few

1. Hygiene
2. Personality
3. Kindness
4. Humour
5. Tolerance
6. Manners
7. Attractiveness
8. Romanticism
9. Appetite
10. Self worth and security in it
11. Height

I'd like to know "real" answers on the things men prioritize

Deicide · « **Reply #6 on:** June 17, 2009, 06:31:37 AM »

Quote from: w8m8 on June 17, 2009, 06:19:59 AM

I assume "dating" in quotes = not just a cup of tea and stroll in the park

taking picks from all that's mentioned and placing the ones which are pertinent in order .. and adding another few

1. Hygiene
2. Personality
3. Kindness
4. Humour
5. Tolerance
6. Manners
7. Attractiveness
8. Romanticism
9. Appetite
10. Self worth and security in it
11. Height

I'd like to know "real" answers on the things men prioritize

1. Physical (looks, body)
2. Intellectuality
3. Education
4. Multilingualism
5. Kindness
6. Humour
7. Laid-Backness
8. Worldliness
9. Similar Interests
10. Passion

w8m8 · « **Reply #7 on:** June 17, 2009, 06:34:40 AM »

Quote from: Deicide on June 17, 2009, 06:31:37 AM

8. Worldliness

what is that exactly ? serious ?

Deicide · « **Reply #8 on:** June 17, 2009, 06:40:44 AM »

Quote from: w8m8 on June 17, 2009, 06:34:40 AM

what is that exactly ? serious ?

Kind of hard to describe. Everyone has a different idea of what that is. For me it is an awareness of what one is and where one is in the cosmos and world.

w8m8 · « **Reply #9 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:07:41 AM »

Quote from: Deicide on June 17, 2009, 06:40:44 AM

Kind of hard to describe. Everyone has a different idea of what that is. For me it is an awareness of what one is and where one is in the cosmos and world.

Thanks for your answer , you are most likely correct in that others may define it differently .. I was thinking more along the lines of .. Knowledgable in many areas that concern the majority of the world .. more like facts and figures and trivia type stuff

Deicide · « **Reply #10 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:10:11 AM »

Quote from: w8m8 on June 17, 2009, 07:07:41 AM

Thanks for your answer , you are most likely correct in that others may define it differently .. I was thinking more along the lines of .. Knowledgable in many areas that concern the majority of the world .. more like facts and figures and trivia type stuff

I guess I should have added something like NOT RELIGIOUS, which would be part of worldliness for me.

At the end of the day though I think lists like that don't work. People meet people and you can't really go over anyone with a fine tooth comb, at least I can't. Everyone has faults (I have tons) so it's good not to be TOO critical.

w8m8 · « **Reply #11 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:24:04 AM »

I agree it's not likely that all my boxes will be ticked

but I have to say I wouldn't be over the moon with someone who only had few of those traits or qualities I prefer

we all have faults we can only hope the ones we love accept them and/or are willing to work thru changes

as far as being TOO critical , I concur

Deicide · « **Reply #12 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:33:08 AM »

Quote from: w8m8 on June 17, 2009, 07:24:04 AM

I agree it's not likely that all my boxes will be ticked

but I have to say I wouldn't be over the moon with someone who only had few of those traits or qualities I prefer

we all have faults we can only hope the ones we love accept them and/or are willing to work thru changes

as far as being TOO critical , I concur

I have mutated into an asexual being, thus the list I have provided is purely theoretical.

Deicide · « **Reply #13 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:44:49 AM »

Quote from: STella on June 17, 2009, 05:58:12 AM

Your married! How come you are posting here!?

Original Sin · « **Reply #14 on:** June 17, 2009, 09:40:00 AM »

Quote from: Migs on June 16, 2009, 03:29:13 PM

must refrain from smart assed bitter response.......

you're turning into a real tease, you know that.

Required....

1) Personality
2) Humor
3) Intelligence
4) Good Hygiene (Neatness)

If you don't have those, you don't have me.
Beyond those 4 qualities it really doesn't matter for dating purposes.

Butterbean · « **Reply #15 on:** June 17, 2009, 09:46:16 AM »

Quote from: Deicide on June 17, 2009, 07:44:49 AM

Your married! How come you are posting here!?

I answered hypothetically. Sorry, I'll delete my post!

Migs · « **Reply #16 on:** June 17, 2009, 01:44:15 PM »

Quote from: STella on June 17, 2009, 09:46:16 AM

I answered hypothetically. Sorry, I'll delete my post!

hey repost it!

Butterbean · « **Reply #17 on:** June 17, 2009, 01:47:46 PM »

Quote from: Migs on June 17, 2009, 01:44:15 PM

hey repost it!

I can't. I'm busy pouting

Migs · « **Reply #18 on:** June 17, 2009, 01:51:29 PM »

Quote from: Original Sin on June 17, 2009, 09:40:00 AM

you're turning into a real tease, you know that.

Required....

1) Personality
2) Humor
3) Intelligence
4) Good Hygiene (Neatness)

If you don't have those, you don't have me.
Beyond those 4 qualities it really doesn't matter for dating purposes.

sowwy.

ok so let me think for me...

1) Personality (this to me includes humor)
2) hygeine, especially no jacked up teeth *shudder*
3) Attractiveness. It is subjective but if i am not attracted to you then it's a no go. Doesn't have to be perfect but i have to like her appearance.
4) Intelligence
5) Ambition
6) Good heartedness
7) Decisive

Comfortable with herself
9) adaptable
10) has to love to cook/eat, but not be a fatty. see #3. Call me a hypcirte but not sure I could date a hefty hefty girl. Friends no problem, but romantically not really gonna happen.
11) BOOBIES

Migs · « **Reply #19 on:** June 17, 2009, 01:53:40 PM »

Quote from: STella on June 17, 2009, 01:47:46 PM

I can't. I'm busy pouting

stop pouting! Then do it!

Deicide · « **Reply #20 on:** June 17, 2009, 04:06:12 PM »

Quote from: Migs on June 17, 2009, 01:51:29 PM

sowwy.

ok so let me think for me...

1) Personality (this to me includes humor)
2) hygeine, especially no jacked up teeth *shudder*
3) Attractiveness. It is subjective but if i am not attracted to you then it's a no go. Doesn't have to be perfect but i have to like her appearance.
4) Intelligence
5) Ambition
6) Good heartedness
7) Decisive
Comfortable with herself
9) adaptable
10) has to love to cook/eat, but not be a fatty. see #3. Call me a hypcirte but not sure I could date a hefty hefty girl. Friends no problem, but romantically not really gonna happen.
11) BOOBIES

Are you fat Migs? Real life fat or Getbig fat?

Migs · « **Reply #21 on:** June 17, 2009, 07:51:17 PM »

Quote from: Deicide on June 17, 2009, 04:06:12 PM

Are you fat Migs? Real life fat or Getbig fat?

what's the difference? I'm fat. I was on a 33 year bulking diet

Deicide · « **Reply #22 on:** June 18, 2009, 02:29:09 AM »

Quote from: Migs on June 17, 2009, 07:51:17 PM

what's the difference? I'm fat. I was on a 33 year bulking diet

Hmm...do you work out?

Migs · « **Reply #23 on:** June 18, 2009, 04:00:42 AM »

Quote from: Deicide on June 18, 2009, 02:29:09 AM

Hmm...do you work out?

kinda sorta not really. I pass the gym a lot, lol. I'm a fatty. Just starting to workout again and take better care of myself. I need to lose about 30 pounds.

shossy · « **Reply #24 on:** June 21, 2009, 10:19:03 PM »

1. Humor
2. Kindness
3. Personality
4. Education
5. Romantic
6. Confidence
7. Looks
8. Character
9. Understanding
10. Cuddly (like a teddy bear

)