Author Topic: How to meet women (Read 11679 times)

yng466 · « **on:** June 30, 2009, 03:50:44 PM »

Has anyone here ever read Paul Janka's book? This guy knows what he's talking about! Trust me it will absolutly change your life!!!!!

ripitupbaby · « **Reply #1 on:** July 01, 2009, 03:49:51 AM »

Haven't read it... I don't seem to have a problem meeting women!

yng466 · « **Reply #2 on:** July 01, 2009, 05:11:42 AM »

Well, like the Cyndy Llauper song goes,"GIRLS, JUST WANNA HAVE FUN". You know what the bad part is?Waking up next to someone and you don't know who the hell they are.You know what the worst part is? Niether of you two remembering what you did or whether or not you even did anything at all, at the same time wondering why both of your clothes have mysteriously left a trail from the kitchen to the bedroom.You know what the best part is? It's when she grabs you,drags you back into the bedroom and says,"LET'S FINISH THIS!" NEXT!!!!!

drkaje · « **Reply #3 on:** July 01, 2009, 06:41:36 AM »

You need a book to meet women?

freespirit · « **Reply #4 on:** July 01, 2009, 07:31:13 AM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 01, 2009, 06:41:36 AM

You need a book to meet women?

Yes. Next time you go out, bring a book with you. Otherwise, you won't meet women.

yng466 · « **Reply #5 on:** July 01, 2009, 07:49:35 AM »

Meeting women is easy, it's understanding their psychology and how they think that this book teaches. Hey,I've gotten 3 phone numbers this week.I'm meeting one tomorrow, almost a perfect 10 but hey, at least I'm making an effort.You see,women don't think the same as men anymore than they walk the same as men.Does that give you any kind of a clue? Oh yea, hi Rip,good to hear from you again.

drkaje · « **Reply #6 on:** July 01, 2009, 08:33:14 AM »

Someone under the impression that women are thinking most of the time needs a book.

yng466 · « **Reply #7 on:** July 01, 2009, 09:09:55 AM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 01, 2009, 08:33:14 AM

Someone under the impression that women are thinking most of the time needs a book.

You see, this is what I'm talking about.I now have a better understanding and a whole lot deeper appreciation of who and what women are and what they have to go through when dealing with assholes like you.And to tell you the truth,I'm not perticurally a nice guy!

drkaje · « **Reply #8 on:** July 01, 2009, 10:03:05 AM »

Quote from: yng466 on July 01, 2009, 09:09:55 AM

You see, this is what I'm talking about.I now have a better understanding and a whole lot deeper appreciation of who and what women are and what they have to go through when dealing with assholes like you.And to tell you the truth,I'm not perticurally a nice guy!

Just concentrate on their feelings.

That'll be $19.99

yng466 · « **Reply #9 on:** July 01, 2009, 10:17:29 AM »

So,sue me!! NEXT!!!!!

yng466 · « **Reply #10 on:** July 01, 2009, 10:53:14 AM »

Search for her in the dead of night,
Silouetted by candlelght,
In a whispered word she is gone.

She's a stranger without a name,
In a darkened room they all look the same,
Like the sands of time she slips away,
So far away.

In the mirror you can see her face,
She's an angel dressed in the blackest lace,
A sip of wine and the game can begin,
She's an image lost in fantasy,
Then you touch her and you can't break free,
Then you see your fate sealed there in her eyes.

Parker · « **Reply #11 on:** July 01, 2009, 02:39:36 PM »

Quote from: yng466 on July 01, 2009, 07:49:35 AM

Meeting women is easy, it's understanding their psychology and how they think that this book teaches. Hey,I've gotten 3 phone numbers this week.I'm meeting one tomorrow, almost a perfect 10 but hey, at least I'm making an effort.You see,women don't think the same as men anymore than they walk the same as men.Does that give you any kind of a clue? Oh yea, hi Rip,good to hear from you again.

Dude, meeting is the most simplest thing n the world, unless you are The Hunchback of Notre Dame, now keeping them that' s where YOU might need a book.

What is telling, is that you say, "almost a perfect 10", this will be your undoing...Dimepieces tend to have dimepiece problems, plus you seem to be the type that always wants that dimepiece to validate who you are, when in fact it is you who validates who you are. In actuality you think like the women you want to be with.

yng466 · « **Reply #12 on:** July 01, 2009, 05:31:51 PM »

Who ever said I wanted to keep em? Besides,perfect 10s are extremely rare.Anyway,money has universal value,hot women do not.The only commodity more abundant than pussy is water.And hey, the Hunchback of Nortre Dame still got his girl.

Parker · « **Reply #13 on:** July 01, 2009, 06:07:55 PM »

Quote from: yng466 on July 01, 2009, 05:31:51 PM

Who ever said I wanted to keep em? Besides,perfect 10s are extremely rare.Anyway,money has universal value,hot women do not.The only commodity more abundant than pussy is water.And hey, the Hunchback of Nortre Dame still got his girl.

No such thing as a perfect 10, unless you own the magazine Perfect 10. Man and woman were made imperfect, so perfection is a imperfect goal. You place to much value on superficial looks, which means you'll always be chasing tail, and putting them on a pedestal---yet they will be looking down on you. Plus, are you unattractive? And yes, hot women (or their beauty) does have universal value...

And the Hunchback was a fictional character, so will you base your logic on a fictious ugly person getting the hot girl.

And if the only commodity more abundant that pussy is water, if cooter is so abundant, why are you having a hard time meeting them? That's like a fish drowning in water, or using your analogy, a thirsty man dying of thirst at the water fountain.

Luv2Hurt · « **Reply #14 on:** July 01, 2009, 07:51:55 PM »

Perfect is different for everyone. Personally I like a woman to be real and a few flaws are fine by me as long as Im attracted to her. Relationships are so complex so much at play. Two people who can put up with each other and be pretty happy and satisfied about it seem to be hard to find and rare.

I think the OP is just saying he learned some things about himself and his approach that has helped him not do stupid boy like stuff when courting women.

I know the other guys who chimed in are real life lady killers with happy sex lives and have fruitful happy relationships that they have maintained.

yng466 · « **Reply #15 on:** July 02, 2009, 05:12:19 AM »

Ok, I'm going to try to illustrate this concept to the best of my ability.Does anyone here play golf? Ok, say that you get on the course a couple of times a week. As anyone knows,an avid golfer is always looking for ways to improve on their game for example,If there were a book on golfing tips and Tiger Woods wrote it,would you take the time to sit down to read it if it could give you an edge and improve your game? Well,dating and golf have a lot in common,they're both easy games to play,but they're hard games to play well. Anyway, a woman does'nt have to be perfect to get my attention. When a relationship reaches a plataeu,you either have to take it to the next level,or you have to drop it.That way it minimizes the pain and hurt the both of you are going the feel. And the healing process can begin. You see,men and women all share common traits that are inherant to their gender. Aside from the obvious,with their manners and behaviors. You line them up side by side,they're as different as any color you can imagine. And no,hot women do not have universal value. Ever meet a hot woman only to find out that she was'nt your type after all? And yes, there some perfect 10s.Don't believe me,ask any cop.

Parker · « **Reply #16 on:** July 02, 2009, 01:21:31 PM »

Quote from: Luv2Hurt on July 01, 2009, 07:51:55 PM

Perfect is different for everyone. Personally I like a woman to be real and a few flaws are fine by me as long as Im attracted to her. Relationships are so complex so much at play. Two people who can put up with each other and be pretty happy and satisfied about it seem to be hard to find and rare.

I think the OP is just saying he learned some things about himself and his approach that has helped him not do stupid boy like stuff when courting women.

I know the other guys who chimed in are real life lady killers with happy sex lives and have fruitful happy relationships that they have maintained.

I wish I was....

Quote from: yng466 on July 02, 2009, 05:12:19 AM

Ever meet a hot woman only to find out that she was'nt your type after all? And yes, there some perfect 10s.Don't believe me,ask any cop.

Your initial attraction is universal...

As one person told me, "it easy to make something complex, hard to make something simple" I had to apply this concept, and it didn't take me to shell out any money to find out either.

az · « **Reply #17 on:** July 02, 2009, 02:44:46 PM »

Quote from: ripitupbaby on July 01, 2009, 03:49:51 AM

Haven't read it... I don't seem to have a problem meeting women!

me either!!!

yng466 · « **Reply #18 on:** July 02, 2009, 03:07:10 PM »

Well, I'll leave this to you all to draw up your own conclusions, and hey, please don't try to cut me down or belittle me. Why?Because I paid for a book? The most common mistake guys make in relationships is just because they slept with someone they start hanging around her like a fucking puppy which in my opinion is the leading cause of divorce in this fucked up country.Hey, I'm just trying to broaden my horizons here so lighten up ok? let's make this a positive thread ok? I'm always open to fresh ideas,not old beliefs.Times change, people change,cultures change,you have to learn to evolve and adapt with it. It's the basic law of survival. When I started this thread I wanted to open up a subject that us men could talk about and relate to.Why all the personal attacks against me? Hey, I'm 47 years old and I don't need VIAGRA to get an erection.

freespirit · « **Reply #19 on:** July 03, 2009, 04:33:06 AM »

Is there anything in this book that I'm supposed to know about meeting women, or is it that I already know al the simple facts on how to meet women?

yng466 · « **Reply #20 on:** July 03, 2009, 07:39:35 AM »

Quote from: freespirit on July 03, 2009, 04:33:06 AM

Is there anything in this book that I'm supposed to know about meeting women, or is it that I already know al the simple facts on how to meet women?

Read it for yourself, do your homework.It's not like learning to ride a
bicycle. It does'nt work that way.

freespirit · « **Reply #21 on:** July 03, 2009, 08:02:57 AM »

Quote from: yng466 on July 03, 2009, 07:39:35 AM

Read it for yourself, do your homework.It's not like learning to ride a
bicycle. It does'nt work that way.

Communicating with women, dating women, all comes natural these days. I learned, and I'm confident about myself. I believe you, there's always something to learn. According to learn to ride a bicycle: you need to control the bicycle, keep your balance, and feel confident.

yng466 · « **Reply #22 on:** July 03, 2009, 10:29:13 AM »

Quote from: freespirit on July 03, 2009, 08:02:57 AM

Communicating with women, dating women, all comes natural these days. I learned, and I'm confident about myself. I believe you, there's always something to learn. According to learn to ride a bicycle: you need to control the bicycle, keep your balance, and feel confident.

Maybe it's more like when the horse throws you off that you've got to get back on it. Don't let that horse get the upper hand.

Parker · « **Reply #23 on:** July 05, 2009, 11:08:56 PM »

Quote from: yng466 on July 02, 2009, 03:07:10 PM

Well, I'll leave this to you all to draw up your own conclusions, and hey, please don't try to cut me down or belittle me. Why?Because I paid for a book? The most common mistake guys make in relationships is just because they slept with someone they start hanging around her like a fucking puppy which in my opinion is the leading cause of divorce in this fucked up country.Hey, I'm just trying to broaden my horizons here so lighten up ok? let's make this a positive thread ok? I'm always open to fresh ideas,not old beliefs.Times change, people change,cultures change,you have to learn to evolve and adapt with it. It's the basic law of survival. When I started this thread I wanted to open up a subject that us men could talk about and relate to.Why all the personal attacks against me? Hey, I'm 47 years old and I don't need VIAGRA to get an erection.

You are so wrong on this, that aren't enough levels to count. Most dudes don't hang around a female after they sleep with her, maybe YOU do or Your friends. And at 47, you should already know how to attract MATURE women, by experience and wisdom

yng466 · « **Reply #24 on:** July 06, 2009, 05:31:09 AM »

Quote from: Parker on July 05, 2009, 11:08:56 PM

You are so wrong on this, that aren't enough levels to count. Most dudes don't hang around a female after they sleep with her, maybe YOU do or Your friends. And at 47, you should already know how to attract MATURE women, by experience and wisdom

Well, whatever I'm doing,it works for me. Like I said before,it's not like learning to ride a bicycle in that once you learn,you never forget.It does'nt work that way. You see, I've never really been very good with people in general. I guess it's just because they're so fucking unpredictable. My relationships with women in the past have hardly ever gone beyond the bedroom. Hair half way down my back,goatee,black leather motorcycle jacket,hot muscle car,fit, muscular,healthy, a cockyness and and attitude that women found very attractive. Hell, they were just as wild as I was. And judging from your advice,hey,this is Florida, just how "MATURE" are we talking about here? Hell, If I wanna go fuck some little old lady now it might as well be for her fucking money! That is not my goal.I'm still looking for that ONE. And if I never find her, I won't be remembered as someone who tried and failed. I'll be remembered as someone who tried and DIED looking for her. And I won't ever give up that search! NEVER!