Gay men WANT to believe that even straight men think like them. That way, they don't feel like societal minorities.
not true, but there are some like bay that are very centric thinking. But it is know real wonder why bay thinks as he does, he is:
black
gay
lives on a college campus
You cant get more in a box than that. He is culturaly conditioned from all sides to believe he is the center of the universe and that because he was wronged in the past that makes his opinions automatically right