Irl you would have gotten your ass kicked already 
Why? Are you so uncivilized that you react with violence whenever confronted with perfectly acceptable questions that "bother" you for some reason?
Why are you so sensitive when it comes to the negative perception that your closest most likely hold of you, due to your lack of progress? Make no mistake, your father tries your best to cheer you up, but you can not by any stretch of imagination believe that he is proud of you or happy about what he sees?
In all reality, he probably hurts inside seeing your lifestyle, but he tries your best to cheer you up
