..can someone please tell me..

[Brixtonbulldog]

Is it better to care so much about everything but hurt yourself in the process?

or..

Better to not give a shit and join the rest of society in the garbage?


























goddammit... aarrgghh!!!

[MB_722]

Better to not give a shit, and take care of yourself and the people you care about first

[Ex Coelis]

    * Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
    * Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land.
    * Blessed are they who mourn: for they shall be comforted.
    * Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice: for they shall have their fill.
    * Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
    * Blessed are the clean of heart: for they shall see God.
    * Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
    * Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

stay the course . . .

[Butterbean]

Is it better to care so much about everything but hurt yourself in the process?

or..

Better to not give a shit and join the rest of society in the garbage?

I like Big Poppa's post (didn't watch the video though).

I feel like for me I have to have a balance.  There are things I just cannot view/hear about/etc. or I think I could possibly lose it.

I don't think we should "not give a sh*t .." etc. though.  We can still help w/o knowing all the details.

If you want to be more specific here we could respond to that ...

If everyone stops caring we are screwed.

[Deadpool]

care about you and yours first

[Brixtonbulldog]

I like Big Poppa's post (didn't watch the video though).

I feel like for me I have to have a balance.  There are things I just cannot view/hear about/etc. or I think I could possibly lose it.

I don't think we should "not give a sh*t .." etc. though.  We can still help w/o knowing all the details.

If you want to be more specific here we could respond to that ...


If everyone stops caring we are screwed.

Short version: Got dumped, not my fault.  Caught somewhere between rage, disappointment, and heartache.   

[Ex Coelis]

Short version: Got dumped, not my fault.  Caught somewhere between rage, disappointment, and heartache.   

download "Razorblades and Bandaides" by Econoline Crush

that'll get it out of your system

[Ursus]

    * Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
    * Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land.
    * Blessed are they who mourn: for they shall be comforted.
    * Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice: for they shall have their fill.
    * Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
    * Blessed are the clean of heart: for they shall see God.
    * Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
    * Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

stay the course . . .

The Beatitudes.

RC my good man?

[Ex Coelis]

The Beatitudes.

RC my good man?

haha you know it

good stuff right there

[Ursus]

Taught it from an early age.

RC here also

[benchmstr]

Is it better to care so much about everything but hurt yourself in the process?

or..

Better to not give a shit and join the rest of society in the garbage?


























goddammit... aarrgghh!!!

your wasting your life if you are actually asking that question. have fun, life is short, and you only have one. if you die with any regrets at all you have failed at life.

bench

[Dos Equis]

Short version: Got dumped, not my fault.  Caught somewhere between rage, disappointment, and heartache.   

Sorry to hear that. 

There are a lot of fish in the sea. 

[Brixtonbulldog]

download "Razorblades and Bandaides" by Econoline Crush

that'll get it out of your system

done

[Brixtonbulldog]

your wasting your life if you are actually asking that question. have fun, life is short, and you only have one. if you die with any regrets at all you have failed at life.

bench

i used to agree.. frankly i think if a man has no regrets that man should re-examine the choices he's made. 

[Brixtonbulldog]

Sorry to hear that. 

There are a lot of fish in the sea. 

Very true.  Unfortunately most of those fish suck ass.

[big L dawg]

[Ursus]

Sorry to hear that. 

There are a lot of fish in the sea. 

 



Just kidding bro its sucks etc. Hope you get sorted soon

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

[ToxicAvenger]

Is it better to care so much about everything but hurt yourself in the process?

or..

Better to not give a shit and join the rest of society in the garbage?
goddammit... aarrgghh!!!

words of wisdom from your fello countryman...and a good read for anyone ..written during Wilde's time in jail..

http://www.upword.com/wilde/de_profundis.html



Where there is sorrow there is holy ground. Some day people will realise what that means. They will know nothing of life till they do, - and natures like his can realise it.

When I was brought down from my prison to the Court of Bankruptcy, between two policemen, - waited in the long dreary corridor that, before the whole crowd, whom an action so sweet and simple hushed into silence, he might gravely raise his hat to me, as, handcuffed and with bowed head, I passed him by. Men have gone to heaven for smaller things than that.

It was in this spirit, and with this mode of love, that the saints knelt down to wash the feet of the poor, or stooped to kiss the leper on the cheek. I have never said one single word to him about what he did.

[benchmstr]

i used to agree.. frankly i think if a man has no regrets that man should re-examine the choices he's made. 

except if your like me, and your choices are flawless

bench

[Dos Equis]

Very true.  Unfortunately most of those fish suck ass.

Lots of bad ones, but lots of good ones too.  You'll find someone.  Just decide what you want in a woman, pray about it (if you're the religious type), and don't compromise/settle for someone who doesn't have what you're looking for. 

[Brixtonbulldog]

Lots of bad ones, but lots of good ones too.  You'll find someone.  Just decide what you want in a woman, pray about it (if you're the religious type), and don't compromise/settle for someone who doesn't have what you're looking for. 

Very true.  And I am the religious type, although at this point I've taken to cursing the heavens more than anything else. 

Prolly not helping.

[benchmstr]

Very true.  And I am the religious type, although at this point I've taken to cursing the heavens more than anything else. 

Prolly not helping.

yeah, but if your life already sucks its not hurting you either       you my friend are in need of a happy meal, and a hug

j/k just try not to take life too seriously, you will never make it out alive.

bench

[Dos Equis]

Very true.  And I am the religious type, although at this point I've taken to cursing the heavens more than anything else. 

Prolly not helping.

lol.     She's out there man. 

[benchmstr]

lol.     She's out there man. 

......and if she isnt fuck it................come to texas and we will get drunk and throw rocks at cars!!!

bench

[Brixtonbulldog]

......and if she isnt fuck it................come to texas and we will get drunk and throw rocks at cars!!!

bench

lol.. throw rocks at cars???  aren't you a cop?? lol

maybe ill come to texas and be a cop