you seem to be always in the right place, at the right time to see all these things. that, or you just look extra hard for them.
My point exactly! He is “regularly eyed up by gays” at this gym and disgusted by what he sees there, yet he keeps going back again and again and again--
when he doesn’t have to. Why any rational man would do that only Ted Haggard knows. This would appear to be another case of a getbigger trying to throw a grenade only to have it blow up in his own face.

By the way, I’m not calling the OP gay. I neither know nor care about his orientation, but the inconsistency between his words and his behavior is laughable.