heres how shit like that works................for every 100 dudes that sign up for something like that, 2 females sign up...................... ......and sometimes, the females who want to "date" you, end up being prostitutes looking to extract money out of you. so you got a cock party, and the few females that actually are on there looking for legitimate affairs each have 100, 000 dudes sending them messages because the there are so many guys and so few girls, the proportions are out of wack............and these girls might not even be pretty.
girls dont have to go through trouble like that..............all they have to do is smile at a dude, and the dude will chase them...........good luck with your "affair"