I am a Christian to Grant....The only person who can judge you is god.As the bibble says, dont point out the speck of dust in your neighbors eye, when you have a plank in your own.
The bible also says as you judge, others, so the father shall judge you.
Nobody in this world is fit to judge other, we are all sinners by nature.Beleive it or not, it is even a sin to worry
.Luke 12:22 Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life,what you will eat :or about your body or ,what you will wear.Life is more then food, and the body is more then clothes.Consider the Ravens they dont sow or reap, they have no store room or barn:yet god feeds them.And how much more valuable you are the birds!Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life..Since you cannot do this very little thing,why do you worry about the rest
Consider how the lillies grow They dont labor or spin.etc etc
who cares wtf the bible says, most of it is fiction.