Wiggs, you seem like a straight shooter. Why do black guys go after white woman. Is it a status thing?
I can't speak for all black men...
I've dated both and in most cases they are as different as "black and white"...pun intended.
I grew up around many whites, like the same things they do, music, food etc...For the women, it has nothing to do with looks, women of all races are hot. It's about matchups, and I don't match up very well with many black women...Let's just say I've heard many times, I'm too white...
What does that mean? Well first off if you heard me speak that would be the first indication of me being different...It is often a turn off for many sisters...not all. My style of dress, my interests, choice of music and general demeanor just don't seem to jive with them...They like the way I look but that's about it. White women on the other hand, they love the way I speak, the way I dress, my mindset, etc...all the things many of the black women don't like the white women like.
I like them because they are understanding, supportive, openminded, motivational and don't get on brothas backs like a sister does...that shit gets old. I hate generalizing because there are exceptions as I am an expection but that's the general idea.