It wasn't really targeted at you, but I hear you. It was more a comment on that sentiment than something personal.I'm sure that for every example, an opposite one could be found. One simply has to be receptive to it. The way the culture is set up, one side is ALWAYS involved in the dominant culture while the members of the dominant culture can CHOOSE whether or not to get involved in other subcultures. With that, it is easy to miss exceptions and similarities to the rule.
