Groink, i didn't post until now because you know my answer
...But I have to ask why are associating with the same type of women? Sounds like you are falling into a pattern, same type of girl, same results.
Now I don't know for sure, and I have only skimmed this thread..but sounds like she is the codependent type, who looks for men to complete here and she is probably obsessed with physical perfection, clothes, bodies, etc. Now she is transferring all that on to you. That is why she is focusing on the physical world rather than the spiritual. ( I thought you liked Madonna, didn't she sing about this in Real World Substitute?) She is looking for wholeness by trying to fix a physical quality about you, but if she bothered to look deeper she would find you are already complete, it is she that needs fixing.
If hairlessness is an erotic obsession for her, then she will have to drop it. If she can't then she is pretty shallow. I know so many single people that continue suffering alone because of some fixated sexual fetish they feel they have to satisfy. I personally think fetishes are very unhealthy (contrary to the elitist urban mind set.)
You have made a lot of changes in your life up till now, all positive, all took courage, maturity and growth. You should be with someone who values that and protects it, and not someone who wants to seduce you into her stunted childish fantasy life.
