So you are basically saying that since Kai did exotic shows in the past, and made $1,500-$2,000 a night, could of had any girl he wanted, and actualyl can hold up a grapefruit, we should crucify him now.
Point is, that was in his past. He is not nor has been doing that in the last few years.
Get over it already. If all he did in his past was play with a grapefruit, I am not that worried.
Did he hit someone? Does he have a violent record? Jeez - you are worried about a grapefruit.