1 do you plan on not working at all for the rest of your life?
No. I would go back to work when my daughter is a little older.
2 how do your family and hers react when they know you re unemployed and the "woman" of the house?
My daughter is great with people, well behaved and smart as hell. They think that it's great that a "man" can take care of the home and kids. Many of the men in the family wished they could swap with me.

3 what if you screw your kids education even staying at home with them for years, imagine they get into gangs drugs or anything and arent good at school even if you spent years trying to condition em, wouldnt you consider all of this as a failure?
Pretty dumb question. Any parent would consider themselves a failure if that happened to their kid.

The statistics are on my side though. Being Asian, expectations are set higher, we excel education, are the higher paid ethic race in the US, and have few that are in prison. So no worries here.
4 Cant you just read some psychology books about kids that anyone can buy , give em a decent education everyday while keeping working at the same time like tons of people do? You know there are millions of guys who work out, raise their kids properly and yet have jobs rights ? so why cant you do the same?
Good for them. Let them raise their kids the way they want. I choose differently. In my family and my wife's, someone always stayed home. Wife makes way more than I do, so the choice was obvious.
5 Dont you have other "excuses" for not going to work like every other men?
Bwahaha! Sounds like jealousy here.
6 What do other working men think of you? They know that if you dont work you must be doing something else to compensate, like being your wife's bitch at home?
Other men wish they could do the same. And you last comment speaks of how you would treat your woman. Sorry you don't see it's about family.
7 If your working wife dies or leaves you, how much money do you have in your bank account? I guess you decided to never break and that you would "always" stay together but...what if shit happens ?
We both have over 7 figure life insurance policies so dying without money ain't no fear. As for how much I have in the bank......I stay at home so that should give you an idea. And shit happens all the time. I just happen to learn how to control the bad shit as much as possible.I'm the good man that many wives wish their husband was.