marrying with a prenup is like saying i love you but i don't trust you
then again, without one you're an idiot
Bullshit. Marriage is a binding legal agreement between two parties according to the government. If you marry without a prenup it's like going into business with someone without a contract of services provided by both parties, you're just fucking stupid if you do that.
You have to think of it like a business because that's the way the government sees it. If I came to you and said hey I have a business you should invest in, the chance of failure is 50% though, just give me your money and trust me things will work out. Who in their right fucking mind would be so stupid to do such thing? No one would of course.
There is absolutely no single reason, and I challange anyone to point one out, for a man to get married in this day and age. You don't need marriage to have a loving and fullfilling relationship with your partner or have children.