in american society where masculinity is overhyped men tend to asociate gay with weak
so it is used as an insult
looks like you need more time spent in north america (and brains) to understand how things are going on here, cause you obviously have no idea what you're talking about.
I can clearely picture you getting dwarfed mentally and physically by every single north american random dude you come across in the streets and having a tough time dealing with it. That explains your "attitude" on getbig, on the internet, your pathetic attempt to constantly overcompensate for your real life shortcomings.
It's also very typical from all europeans who come to north america.
Maybe you d feel better going back to your shithole in europe?