Not at all. It's the pot calling the kettle black.
How so?...I don't consider myself a tough guy.
I'm kinda serious here, you say "fighting in ingrained in your DNA" so i'm curious as to whether you are one of those guys who always seems to be getting into fights.
I'm just the opposite, I'll go out of my way to avoid a fight, i really don't like it.
I messed a kid up really bad (self defense) when we were both really young and it fucked with me...i don't like hurting people