Great info guys thanks a lot
To clarifiy - Since a lot of you know that I am trying my best not to give in to the "dark side"

I cannot see me really having much fun for another 10 years just going to the gym.
I think the way I look is pretty much as far as I can go and I really want to get away from the whole look thing and more back to the sport of lifting weights.
I was in the perfect gym "the Hercules" and may join them again but with the baby on the way I have to seriously consider what is best for my wife and the baby - time wise, In any way I cannot stop training since I have a fatliver and need to do sport on a regular basis for my own personal health.
But even If I don't consider myself a talent when it comes down to weightlifting my recent breakthroughs of my personal bests leads and the fun that I still have in simply lifting weights I say it is best If I give the old "bodybuilding" training a pass and do something I have never done before.
Thanks again for all your help the links are excellent.