Your psychological predictions are interesting. To be honest, my mother can be a little much at times and still tries to involve herself in my life which is not necessarily too uncommon amongst my friends - I have a 29 year old friend whose mother does the same thing! My father and I weren't close as a kid, but more now.
Remember when Howie discussed his family life on getbig and people made fun of him for it? Oh well, I don't feel as if I am sharing too much.
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well boys who have "mothers that are a little too much" and are raised with a missing father tend to become either paranoid individuals , or repressed homosexuals.
There is often an inbalance in the way they see themselves and others. They feel depressed , insecure and nothing seems to reassure them. They re often very pessimistic and hateful about others and life in general. They either have great skills to seduce women because they developed a greater sensibility to other humans beings feelings - if they separate from their mother- or absolutely none if they dont cut all ties with their mothers soon enough -the homosexual way-.
Did you mother cut all ties between you and your father, did she tell you he was a loser, did she prevent you from using him as a role model? Was she your only role model? Did she endorse the role of a mother AND a father? Did she disqulifies your father's skills and said he was unworthy of your trust?
People who lack a father and have an overhelming mother also tend to have issues with authority and society's rules. They tend to be seduced by anarchy or highly disciplined forms of autoritarism to replace the lack of a father figure.They are prone to embrace extremistic and obsessive behaviors, like lifting weights for example.
The best solution to solve these dysfunctionalities is to cut all ties with the mother and give a place to the father who's been disqualified in the past.
oh and i forgot, men with a lacking father figure and an overwhelming mother tend to see the world and relationships with men and other women as either black or white , they have a very dichotomic view of the world; it means they either see the others as FRIENDS or .. ENNEMIES. Which is obvious in the way you communicate with people on here, they re either friends or ennemies wther they agree or disagree with you. Bascially your perception of things is extremistic and not balanced. Re-discovering your father should compensate for this a bit, but the way kids who lacked a father see the world have often been altered for ever, there's hardly any "rebirth" possible, they can just cope as much as they can with their father or other tutors of resiliency they could meet in their life. The good news is you can reverse the process somehow. Staying in touch with the mother tho is often very damaging, cause she's already been OVERpresent in the kid's life and is responsible for the abnormal,extremistic kid's view of the world.
Of course all of this can vary from an individual to another, there is a wide variety of possiblities int he development of the kid, but these are the global, general lines psychiatrists, psychologists and sociologists discovered/revealed after decades of studies since the end of world war 2.