guess all that leaves us with is internet porn 
depressing... 
well, all women arent feminists and some still find necessary to live with a man and find what he has to bring as valuable. A father is not just here to inseminate the woman then leave, that's not the purpose of his presence in the first place. He has to raise the child, and come between the mother and kid to prevent them from being too close of each other, then he has to teach how to develop social skills, self control and respect of authority. Failing to do that lead to a failed and uterly counter productive education that produce antisocial and unhappy individuals who will in returm make other lifes miserable in their interactions with em.
A boy learns how to become a man and father from his own father, and how to interact with women with his mother.
A girl learns how to become a woman from her own mother, and how to interact with men with her father.
The model of relationships our parents brought us shapes the way we will interact for the rest of our lifes with men and women.
Not all women believe in the feminist extremistic delirium and dont want to dominate men, they just want to be treated as equals for some things, knowing they cant be their equals for EVERYTHING.
The problem is when you have women who want to use all these changes that are occuring to obtain a new dominating position over men. Who see here an oportunity to go too far. Women like men can be possesive and desire power and submission as much a men. But there's a balance to be found, men have to change, women have to change, but none of em have to DOMINATE the relationship, domination always equals troubles and unsatisfaction, suffering. Wether men or women are in the leading position.
They have to be complementary to each others, they have to cope for each others weaknesses, and they have to improve themselves and each other in the process.
About internet porn . When you get addicted to internet porn, you dont get addicted to real life sexual relationships. You just get addicted to passive, imaginary virtual porn. The purpose of sexual desire is to lead to reproduction with a partner, not just to please yourself. When you believe masturbation or sex are just about satisfying your own need, and keep masturbating over and over without having real sex with a partner, you develop a deep frustration that increases over time. Basically you re fooling yourself, your biology , your body and brain, cause what your body wants is to reproduce, not to just please yourself.
In some animal species like monkeys, mutual masturbation is a also a way to release stress and soften conflicts between males in order to guarantee peace and tranquility for the whole group/community. In humans, sex beside reproduction also allow partners to release their stress and soften conflicts. But focusing only on your own pleasure, and using your partner as a slave -even if she/he agrees to do so for a while- always lead to conflicts.
Healthy sex is about giving as much as your receive to your partner, and not about being focused only on your own pleasure. Massive daily consumption of internet porn over years only conditions men to become more and more self centered and egoistical and to become progressively unable to please women both psychologically and sexually. It's a recent phenomenon which is directly linked to the apparition of the internet but make no mistake, this is just another socially destructive addiction that will eventually have to be fought in the next decades once everyone agree about its nocivity.
