I would qualify him as a patient in need of mental counseling, and throw him into a military style boot camp program to help rebuild his self esteem while getting him into shape.
I say you hit that right on the head. Although, from my perspective, most blacks hate themselves to some degree. Hell, I think if many could they would try and white wash history to point where blacks just happen to be here, no slavery, blacks just appeared in the US. On the real, hhe biggest that has happened to black folk is that we have been mindfucked to the point where mindfucked ourselves into believing that we are less than. And any colors that shade lighter are "better". Even Black Men magazine and Smooth magazine typically feature light skinned or Latina women. Odd, when in Playboy they said that due to more Latin and black influences, the models have gradually become darker, have darker hair and eyes.
He's gay ( typical hetero black males don't watch Tyra, unless it's for tits and ass shots), and overweight.
That's his problem right there. He's probably confused about that. But if HD actually was white, he'd find
something else to "hate" himself. And I wonder what type of music he listens to.
On the real, I love being black, wish I was actually darker. I'm not stupid, never was raise to believe that
I was or that black people are. Black women got phat asses and breasts and small waists, the pretty ones got DSLs, high cheekbones, and big brown eyes.
I willing to bet you he was 1:raised in a household with no or little father envolvement, a strong female presence. 2:did not have positive affirmation of black people or of black men, thanks to mom. 3:spent a lot of time around women, to obsess over his looks, and gets way to overly emotional over things he cannot change, race, etc. 4:Race is a underlying issue, it's really his sexuality, possibly some type of shame, put on him by, of course, his mother. He just uses the black excuse as a crutch. In reality he wants to just "fix" everything that is wrong with him. And the key is that he said everything would be easier. It's easier to be a gay white man, than a gay black man.