wow...how tall are you??
little shy of 6f - I have long arms unfortunalty which doesn't help but I learned to have a very wide grip, I also recently learned to
slight the bar off let it rest do a little twist with my hands so I dont flare out the arms so I use more my triceps (which are bigger then my biceps anyways) and dont use my shoulders that much.
What is amazing is - there is this personal trainer in my gym - guy looks about 45 years old but I am sure he's a little younger but uses the sunbed a lot.
I dont like him a lot since hes always running around with super tight shirts (but he is fucking ripped like crazy).
So a couple of weeks ago I was looking around for somebody to spot me and we was seriously the only one that looked like he could spot me propperly the rest of the guys were seriously either skinny or looked unfit.
So I walk over when he finished a set and asked him politly if he mind spotting me and was...
Oh maaan, everybody asks me to spot - I have my training time... ah never mind never mind come on lets do it only once ok?
And I said: Mate no problem I don't want to break your training its okay I find somebody else
An he said: No no let go lets do it only once.
So I get in the propper benching position with the arched back (I really think I have it correctly now) he looks at me like I am crazy...
So I take the weight of and rep out 6 with 100kg.
Then rack the weight and he starts giving me this long ass preach of how I should put my feet up (not down to the ground as planting into the ground) but actually up.

I just let it go and siad thanks for the advice and off he went.
So today he was watching me I just ignored him...fucking old c
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