Author Topic: Damn. Still i dont have any clue about girlzz!! And I am 40yrs old divorced! (Read 12875 times)

kyomu · « **on:** February 21, 2010, 01:48:03 PM »

I have just been rejected by a girl whom i fell in love with.
She called me, hugged me ,staying with me.. then said very good friend but she ddint feel the same as me.
Whole gym was believing that we ended up dating. Paco helped me a lot(I rather feel bad for Paco because of it than myself).
And when i was with this girl, another pretty girl approached to me but i rejected her because of this girl.
Now i dont have anyone.
WTF!

Method101 · « **Reply #1 on:** February 21, 2010, 01:51:10 PM »

meltdown

Kwon · « **Reply #2 on:** February 21, 2010, 01:54:35 PM »

Quote from: kyomu on February 21, 2010, 01:48:03 PM

I have just been rejected by a girl whom i fell in love with.
She called me, hugged me ,staying with me.. then said very good friend but she ddint feel the same as me.
Whole gym was believing that we ended up dating. Paco helped me a lot(I rather feel bad for Paco because of it than myself).
And when i was with this girl, another pretty girl approached to me but i rejected her because of this girl.
Now i dont have anyone.
WTF!

Yeah, things like that suck, makes you confused too (that you rejected another because you thought you had the first chick).

Lesson learned is, don't reject anyone

Always have an option if things don't work out as expected.

Method101 · « **Reply #3 on:** February 21, 2010, 01:57:14 PM »

Kyomu is an oriental guy living in a non-oriental country, unless he finds another Japanese immigrant finding a long-term relationship will be difficult for him, Spanish parents want their children to find Spanish partners. It's their right to not want their next of kin to be bastardized further. The Spanish are a big enough mix already.

His only hope may be to go into the Japanese Anime conventions in Spain and find a japanophile lol.

bigdumbbell · « **Reply #4 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:03:43 PM »

wavelength · « **Reply #5 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:03:43 PM »

Don't worry about it kyomu, girls just love the drama. Sometimes there really isn't much we can do. Let them have their drama if that's what they prefer.

kyomu · « **Reply #6 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:03:58 PM »

Quote from: Kwon on February 21, 2010, 01:54:35 PM

Yeah, things like that suck, makes you confused too (that you rejected another because you thought you had the first chick).

Lesson learned is, don't reject anyone

Always have an option if things don't work out as expected.

Yeah. Paco says so too.(hahahahaha, actualy he helps me more about girls than my prep for contest

)
The even more complicate thing is that girl said that she wanted to be with me all the time in spite of not liking me as a lover.
One thing i think is that i surprised her maybe... i am a very emotional person and one time i fall in love(anything), i get into it with buring my soul. Is it too intense for a girl whom just i met 3 weeks ago?Mmmmmmmm

Kwon · « **Reply #7 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:05:28 PM »

Who the hell wants a girl that wants to spend time with you all the time but not liking you as a lover?

What's the point?

Dudes have needs.

kyomu · « **Reply #8 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:06:10 PM »

Quote from: Xerxes on February 21, 2010, 01:52:22 PM

This is whats wrong with most guys, they lose the "ONE SPECIAL" girl and get all depressed and shit. Do you REALLY make an effort to meet women? Like really?

I bet if you go out and actually TALK to several different women then you'll end up fucking one in no time. You could fuck new girls every week if you wanted it hard enough.

Actualy you are right in a sence.
But, I like to have sex with romantic feeling.
Not sexual appetite only,

kyomu · « **Reply #9 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:08:14 PM »

Quote from: Kwon on February 21, 2010, 02:05:28 PM

Who the hell wants a girl that wants to spend time with you all the time but not liking you as a lover?

What's the point?

Dudes have needs.

Yeah. I have to open her mind and investigate more.
Maybe complicate psycho structure there.
If there is a fragment of sexual feeling to me, still the game is not over.

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #10 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:09:47 PM »

Quote from: kyomu on February 21, 2010, 02:06:10 PM

Actualy you are right in a sence.
But, I like to have sex with romantic feeling.
Not sexual appetite only,

You need Gensing man then just start having sex with all of them. Serious most women are loco.

wavelength · « **Reply #11 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:11:25 PM »

Quote from: Mr Nobody on February 21, 2010, 02:09:47 PM

Serious most women are loco.

ain't that the truth, I guess we just have to live with it

bigdumbbell · « **Reply #12 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:11:47 PM »

meet one in church not gym

kyomu · « **Reply #13 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:11:59 PM »

Quote from: Xerxes on February 21, 2010, 02:07:27 PM

Yes Kyomu, this is needy behaviour and girls find that unattractive. If you are getting in the friendzone you need to be more physical (grab her, hold her, kiss her, fuck her) and less nice. More straightforward and bold. But there should be no problem for you to find another girl!

How is your diet going?

Yeah, She let me touch everywhere(ok, except girl and tits

). But, she is not very comfortable with my strong feeling toward her.
Thnx for cheering me.

My prep is quite well, i didnt film the weeksout video because of this girl matter. Next week, i will up load it.

kyomu · « **Reply #14 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:14:48 PM »

Quote from: Xerxes on February 21, 2010, 02:11:24 PM

Yes brother I understand . Remember as long as the words "relationship" and "exclusive" are not mentioned then it's fair game. Girls often fuck other people while going on dates with guys, this persian girl i fucked a while ago went on a date right after we finished fucking here. So don't feel guilty for shit.

No, No guilty at all. well done mate.

drkaje · « **Reply #15 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:15:52 PM »

There's no pussy shortage, Man.

kyomu · « **Reply #16 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:17:06 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on February 21, 2010, 02:15:52 PM

There's no pussy shortage, Man.

But, I am talking about quality, not quantity.

Method101 · « **Reply #17 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:17:23 PM »

Typical Kyomu, he tries to ignore the posters who have the balls to tell him the truth. There are many people on the teen section of bodybuilding.com with a better physique than him and he has been bodybuilding for 20+ years. Also this case sounds like she liked him as a person but the thing that stopped it going further was the fact that hes an oriental, obviously she would never tell him that.

You can't whine about not being able to find women when you no longer live in your own native country. In Japan you would have 3x more of a chance. The only Spanish women who will accept you will be mentally or physically stunted in some form. This is not racist talk, it may not be politically correct to tell the truth but tough shit.

You don't have to reply, i already know you have read my post.

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #18 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:18:08 PM »

Quote from: kyomu on February 21, 2010, 02:11:59 PM

Yeah, She let me touch everywhere(ok, except #### and tits ). But, she is not very comfortable with my strong feeling toward her.
Thnx for cheering me.

My prep is quite well, i didnt film the weeksout video because of this girl matter. Next week, i will up load it.

Dont let a women take you away from your goals man if given a chance they will, age old history. Been through enough now I just take them or leave them.

disturbia · « **Reply #19 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:19:58 PM »

Quote from: Method101 on February 21, 2010, 02:17:23 PM

Typical Kyomu, he tries to ignore the posters who have the balls to tell him the truth. There are many people on the teen section of bodybuilding.com with a better physique than him and he has been bodybuilding for 20+ years. Also this case sounds like she liked him as a person but the thing that stopped it going further was the fact that hes an oriental, obviously she would never tell him that.

You can't whine about not being able to find women when you no longer live in your own native country. In Japan you would have 3x more of a chance. The only Spanish women who will accept you will be mentally or physically stunted in some form. This is not racist talk, it may not be politically correct to tell the truth but tough shit.

You don't have to reply, i already know you have read my post.

this is actually a really good post if people would just read it

Marty Champions · « **Reply #20 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:21:43 PM »

kyomu u should cuss that bitch out, sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt, insult her looks shame her for wasting your time and insult her looks again

kyomu=true master inshape yellow man, u look better than most o us here, women sometimes are looking for a dude that plays in a rock band or some shit

just get on myspace and talk to alot of hoes, take some pics of you with a cocky expression on your face, work on a confident and cocky expression and smile sometimes too is okay, girls love abs and you got pretty damn good abs show them off in your myspace profile and the hoes will flock garanteed, but delete a girl quickly barely give anyone a second chance remember you are the prize butty. honestly i dont think you will have much trouble on the internets with your built grow out that hair on top a little bit maybe keep the sides short regardless youll get yours butty boy

jwb · « **Reply #21 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:24:08 PM »

I wouldn't trust a spanish chick as far as I could throw her...

disturbia · « **Reply #22 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:28:46 PM »

Quote from: Xerxes on February 21, 2010, 02:26:27 PM

Daddywaddy sharing the knowledge on online game.

honest question

what would prompt you to put yourself in EXTREMELY gay appearing pictures that people can get their hands on and post for all to see?

try to answer taht without some substandard answer like "you're an idiot" etc etc

kyomu · « **Reply #23 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:30:17 PM »

Quote from: Mr Nobody on February 21, 2010, 02:18:08 PM

Dont let a women take you away from your goals man if given a chance they will, age old history. Been through enough now I just take them or leave them.

Nah. Thats not a problem.

wavelength · « **Reply #24 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:31:18 PM »

who cares, xerxes is obviously a hetero and even if not, who the fuck cares