oh in that case... just be 100% honest.
You're looking to havea good time, not ready to settle down.
You should find about a million unsatisfied girls in their early 30s. Either hubby has lost interest, hubby has left, or they're just batshit crazy and haven't gotten married.
beyond that, i'd splurge for a very subtle home video system so nobody ever tries to frame JohnnyNorape.