is this like life blood of the AA male? i had a 300lb slob telling me he was a playa, got game while just continued to ignore him. my girl was like he couldnt suck one of her toes if he paid. case study #2 fool tells me i was getting played by my girl cause she didnt want to pay for the popcorn given she had already paid for the tickets plus had that f##kable dress on that night. still havent figure out who was playin who that night.
what's up with AfroAmers and this playa/balla BS? i havent figured it since it's seems to be something that come along with the rap culture which i dont listen too.
It's the hip-hop culture...videos and such. Plus, black women are the real playas, and if a dude tries to get in the game laced with his heart (like I did), you are gonna get played. So black men, aided by the fact that many are raised by women, start to take up feminine attributes---being manipulative, lying, double dealing, etc. Also having tons of women, is considered that you are the man.
In vids, like Biggie said, "Money, ho's and clothes, that's all a brotha knows", dudes who have the balla money or are playas get the women...
