yea it does suck, yes I get it's a sad time when someone passes. But if its laid out what exactly they want, it makes decisions easier. My grandfather, got very sick at the age of 90 and had to go on life support, I say quality vs. quantity, it was laid out in his will for 14 days then yank the plug. I would of done it sooner, but we obeyed his will. People dont like to think about funerals and the such. It is sad