A lot of guys don't like women, G.
I don't mean gay, just that they really don't like or love women but still need them. This goes for both sexes. It's impossible for people who dislike themselves or have severe trust, parent, masculinity, femininity, or whatever baggage to develop healthy relationships.
boys then men who dont like women - without being homosexuals- often have divorced/separated parents. THey learnt division, discord, between their mother and father, who were constantly bashing each others in front or behind his/her back, which taught the boy or girl to have ambivalent relationships with either men or women as kids, teenages and later in life as adults themselves.
Basically the way you are loved and the way you love your mother and father conditions the way you will love other men and women or be loved by them once an adult.
If your parents are secure alone and when they live together, if they are secure with their colleagues and friends and family, they teach you how to live with a partner and be secure alone, or with friends /colleagues.
There is a direct, latent, diffuse transmission of everything that surrounds the infant right in his brain in his developmental years. Emotions, gestures, words, that will condition him almost definetly for the rest of his life.
Fact is groink's an insecure, immature guy who flees responsabilities and tries to justify his incapacity to overcome his past and present shortcomings by deluding himself into building a fake tough guy personnality ...on the internet.
The "i'm a tough meathead personnality" he sports at 40 is exactly the same kind of immature behavior any random 17 y/o kid you meet in the street with tons of mental problems would sport.
