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« on: April 08, 2010, 11:15:11 PM »
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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #1 on: April 08, 2010, 11:16:45 PM »
i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's. 

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do? 

 Just date her and try to fuck her. But don't get emotionally attached and keep her at a distance because she isn't trustworthy.

 Try to hit it though.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2010, 11:17:50 PM »
Tell her you're also seeing that other guy

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #3 on: April 08, 2010, 11:21:11 PM »
Just date her and try to fuck her. But don't get emotionally attached and keep her at a distance because she isn't trustworthy.

 Try to hit it though.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #4 on: April 08, 2010, 11:22:09 PM »
Tell her you're also seeing that other guy

This seems reasonable.  Do you think he should tell her he's the top (to look more dominate) or the bottom (show he's in touch with his feminine side)? 

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2010, 11:23:41 PM »
well shes obviously a whore if thats true so make her scream your  name

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2010, 11:26:29 PM »
This seems reasonable.  Do you think he should tell her he's the top (to look more dominate) or the bottom (show he's in touch with his feminine side)? 

He should tell her he wants a threesome and he wants to be in the middle to show he's the fucking man

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2010, 11:27:57 PM »
Why are guys so fucking insecure about themselves these days?

Just be a fucking man and be straight up with her.  Ask her flat out if she's seeing someone else, tell her you don't date women who are dating multiple guys at the same time and to give you a call when she's done dating the other guy.  Don't talk to her, don't message her, don't e-mail her and within 2 weeks she'll be all over your nuts.  If not, there's plenty more out there.  Have some confidence in yourself about the whole thing and she'll see that, women drool over confident men, but you gotta be confident in yourself.  Don't be a dick about it, the more non nonchalant the better.  If she still wants to talk or "be friends" while she's dating this other dude, tell her you aren't looking for a friend and whatever you do don't keep in touch with her, let her come to you.

You obviously aren't comfortable with the situation of her dating another guy or you wouldn't have made this thread.  Just tell her what's up and let her come to you when she's done with the other guy.  You wont' have to try to fuck her because she'll be all over you.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2010, 11:30:09 PM »
i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's.  

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do?  
prolly cause of your tren dick

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2010, 11:43:57 PM »
sound advice...thank you.
If she blows you off, she prolly knows you'd accept it...

Hardcore way would be call her from a strip club and cancel the date ;D

And while you are doing it act like you are talking to the stripper and say, "Oh, damn mami", this forces the your date to ask where you are, then you proceed to tell her. She'll be pissed, and say to herself, "Why would he do that, to me?"

Prolly you put in her head that she is the shiggy, and she can get away with blowing you off.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2010, 11:55:41 PM »
be depraved, lots of bumsex ,  bondage etc......treat her like the slut she is and leave nothing for the other dude who probably loves her...

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #11 on: April 09, 2010, 12:00:09 AM »
be depraved, lots of bumsex ,  bondage etc......treat her like the slut she is and leave nothing for the other dude who probably loves her...

 That's exactly what I do when I meet women like that.

 Fuck trying to win her over. Fuck trying to play games to get her to come to you.

 She isn't worth all that. Even she decides that she only wants to date one guy, she'll probably whore around anyway.

 Never date a women seriously unless she is legit from day 1.....

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #12 on: April 09, 2010, 12:16:55 AM »
that last part about the trustworthiness is what bothers me   :-\

not really that involved with her at the moment, but she seems very nice, but if she's playing games and lying to me, then thats a turnoff.

Try to be a challenge, that'll turn her on...for example tell about the time you followed MattT into a bathroom at the airport and then she'll wonder whether or not you are straight which will make it more of a challenge for her.

Jokes aside from the first phrase in the post above it sounds like you are already a bit too attached, as well as from the fact that you made a thread about her :-\  You should try to find a second girl too to help detach yourself from the first at this early stage and date both for a while until you can trust one of them


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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #13 on: April 09, 2010, 01:31:18 AM »
i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's. 

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do? 

Just keep bangin' her.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #14 on: April 09, 2010, 01:45:06 AM »
Are her tits real?
If yes, answer:
how big?
If they're fake, stop wasting your time and get yourself a real woman.
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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #15 on: April 09, 2010, 01:56:05 AM »
LOL at *dating*. While you’re busy attempting to *date* the bitch.. some other, charismatic, confident guy.. has his dick up her ass on a regular basis.. and she loves it. Try to be more like that guy.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #16 on: April 09, 2010, 02:22:31 AM »
LOL at *dating*. While you’re busy attempting to *date* the bitch.. some other, charismatic, confident guy.. has his dick up her ass on a regular basis.. and she loves it. Try to be more like that guy.
Mad truth right there.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #17 on: April 09, 2010, 02:34:15 AM »
LOL at *dating*. While you’re busy attempting to *date* the bitch.. some other, charismatic, confident guy.. has his dick up her ass on a regular basis.. and she loves it. Try to be more like that guy.
hahaha, Nice one.
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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #18 on: April 09, 2010, 04:28:13 AM »
Just date her and try to fuck her. But don't get emotionally attached and keep her at a distance because she isn't trustworthy.

 Try to hit it though.
This is great   x 1000

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #19 on: April 09, 2010, 04:51:57 AM »
Why does it matter if she's dating other guys? She doesn't even know to lock down on you.

You should be dating other too for a few months.

The last thing either one of you want to do is waste time, cutting off your options, just to find out you're not compatible.

Women are just like men, guys. They are just far better at keeping in on the downlow because society will deem the as sluts.

Why isn't she trustworthy? It's none of your business yet what she's doing when you aren't with her. Until you two the conversation about being exclusive she can do what she wants and so can you.

Grow up.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #20 on: April 09, 2010, 06:38:11 AM »
i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's. 

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do? 
Why aren't you grabbing other pussy? Don't get tied down to one chick especially if she is putting you on the back burner.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #21 on: April 09, 2010, 06:44:42 AM »
LOL at *dating*. While you’re busy attempting to *date* the bitch.. some other, charismatic, confident guy.. has his dick up her ass on a regular basis.. and she loves it. Try to be more like that guy.

Nope. She wouldn't be giving him a chance if she was happy with her other guy.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #22 on: April 09, 2010, 06:49:13 AM »
Simply,
Few things come to mind

1) She could be playing the game, blowing you off to see if you stick around. Women yap about everything. Most tell each other to blow a date off or cancel so it seems they have lots going on.

2) Did you ask her if she is dating others. Be honest with her, because it does seem you care to an extent ifi she is. It probably bothers you a tad.

3) If you are getting emotionally attached, find out how she is feeling. If the vibe isnt right, then cut ties

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #23 on: April 09, 2010, 06:56:09 AM »
Immolate her.

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Re: Question regarding recent Date I had.
« Reply #24 on: April 09, 2010, 07:05:46 AM »
Hmm

You seem a genuine and nice guy. She is obviously fucking another guy and is not that much into you  ( noone does "stuff" with the "girls" in the weekend if they really like someone )

So yeah... like a previous post pointed out, I would not touch the phoneor anything but avoid her completely and see how she'll go berserk. Do that for 1-2 weeks. Meanwhile find a nice girl and fuck the bejesus out of her private and no so private parts.

When the aforementioned skank will finally talk to you, tell her very polite and firm that you have very high self esteem and deserve much better . Or even ignore her some more until she shows up at your place.