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[El Diablo Blanco]

Start fucking her doggystyle and grab hold of her hair real tight then slip it in her ass, when she starts to struggle just pull back and enjoy the ride.  Donkey punch her if you have to.

[_bruce_]

LOL at *dating*. While you’re busy attempting to *date* the bitch.. some other, charismatic, confident guy.. has his dick up her ass on a regular basis.. and she loves it. Try to be more like that guy.

Exactly. Just have casual encounters with many women - things will take a nice flow and you won't think too much about what/if and when.

[Natural Man]

how did you manage to date a girl who s dating two guys at the same time in the first place anyway...

if it's true, what a tool...

[the_steevo_uk]

Try to be a challenge, that'll turn her on...for example tell about the time you followed MattT into a bathroom at the airport and then she'll wonder whether or not you are straight which will make it more of a challenge for her.

Jokes aside from the first phrase in the post above it sounds like you are already a bit too attached, as well as from the fact that you made a thread about her  You should try to find a second girl too to help detach yourself from the first at this early stage and date both for a while until you can trust one of them

yeah i'd second that. To be honest mate just have fun, dont treat it as anything serious, if she's seeing some other bloke on the casual let it be, no big deal unless you really really like her. Let it run its course and see where it goes, if you think you might want to date her properly then ask her the question about whether she's seeing someone else. Dont run before you can walk....coming over a little too worried about this stuff too soon aint gonna get you anywhere except losing her respect for you. Take it easy, no need to play games or put yourself out there too much at this stage...if it all goes wrong no harm done, its not like you love each other.

[El Diablo Blanco]

Much of the advice in this thread is very sound.
I will relate just one story.  I was beginning to "date" a girl who was a legit calendar model, who must have been used to guys just tripping and falling all over her.
She and I met one night at a very nice place outside of Atlantic City, while I was out with a few of my friends for sushi.
She asked my friend about me, and we hit it off great.  She told me she goes to this place pretty much every Wednesday, as they have a sushi and drink special that her and her girlfriends like (she was with 2 friends, one was a dime, the other was an
She was a bit of a clinger, and I clearly and sternly told her that I am not into public displays of affection, that I reserve that shit for when the time is right.  I am not a teenager, nor should I act like one (28 at the time).
She gives me her number, tells me she is really into me.  We go on a couple of dates (first date was nothing expensive, but very cool, Chinatown in Philly and then the Art Museum).  Second date was to a great brunch place in Philly, again, nothing expensive.  We had a great time, and she was blowing up my phone.
Well, she must have gotten sage advice from her slut friends, because when I return one of her many calls, she asks me if our "thing" is exclusive.  I honestly tell her that I don't date more than one person at a time, as I find that someone's feelings always end up hurt, and that I had recently broken off an egagement, so I wasn't necessarily looking for anything too serious, but I also am not down with a girl going out with multiple men.

She tells me she wants to see other people, so I tell her that she should be on her way, and that when she decides to grow up, to give me a call.

Well, I always had something on the back burner, so Wed. rolls around, and I call up this attractive girl that I had met at the shore and bring her to the sushi/drink special.  Lo and behold, who was there?  I walk over to her table and say hello, make introductions, and go sit down for dinner with my date.

My phone blew the fuck up for a week.  Needless to say, I owned her mind.

[_bruce_]

These  smileys are a godsend

[mwbbuilder]

You men need to understand that you "own" no woman's minds. if she's smart (which most are), she only make you THINK you own her mind.

They just get more 'stealth" in their maneuvers than men.

People are going to do what they are going to do. And women are no different than men.

Wake up, boys.

[George Whorewell]

Find out who the guy is and then arrange to confront her at her home at the same time to ask for a gang bang. If she says no, proceed with the gangbang anyway then pull a Craig Titus.

Problem solved.

[BIG_STI]

well shes obviously a whore if thats true so make her scream your  name

Like you scream the name of your top bear

[Earl1972]

until you're officially her boyfriend, they're always seeing another guy

you should be dating other girls too

E

[Big Worm]

i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's. 

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do? 

Phuck the other guy in the ass  in front of her,to show her how much of a Phag he is ... wait....what?

[tbombz]

Like you scream the name of your top bear

your post indicates that you have a mental image of a cock going in my ass and of my face in ecstacy...   its likely a fantasy of yours.. thx fer the luv & attention..

[Big Worm]

hahahaha,

yea, i dont think thats the route im going to take there big worm.

Okay bud... But if you need any more advice,I'm here for you bro...Haha..

[Jizzacked]

show up late at night at her place after a 'night with the girls' and demand to check her oil.  if you find the other guy's brand or evidence of a recent tune up.... beat the shit out of her.  she will get the picture.


or you could just play it cool as james001 suggested. I would take his advice.

[SamoanIrishman]

Why does it matter if she's dating other guys? She doesn't even know to lock down on you.

You should be dating other too for a few months.

The last thing either one of you want to do is waste time, cutting off your options, just to find out you're not compatible.

Women are just like men, guys. They are just far better at keeping in on the downlow because society will deem the as sluts.

Why isn't she trustworthy? It's none of your business yet what she's doing when you aren't with her. Until you two the conversation about being exclusive she can do what she wants and so can you.

Grow up.

+1 !!!!   scary how this post was going to be my answer verbatum.

[Quickerblade]

until you're officially her boyfriend, they're always seeing another guy

you should be dating other girls too

E

amen to that

[Hulkotron]

My personal opinion has always been that if a girl is not into me enough to hold off on searching for extra dicks while we're dating, then it's probably not meant to be.

Plenty of fish in the sea, SimplyHuge

[prof]

i think this girl i jsut started seeing is seeing another guy as well.  she seems excited to see me, but blows me off sometimes too, and i think its b/c shes going out with both of us on the weekends and trying to keep it a big secret by saying shes doing stuff with her g/f's. 

ive got another date tomorrow with her.  what should i do? 

There are two types of girls in this world...the ones you date and the ones you screw.  She seems to be the latter as is the case with most girls. 

Believe me, if this is happening to you early on...she is being devious, dishonest, and playing games...it will never get better.

You can play games with her as some suggest....go cold, blow her off, etc., and for a while you will own her mind and she will be all over you.   She will be the perfect little girl.  But as soon as you start to care, and she will sense when that happens regardless of what you do, she will be back to her old games.

So don't get invested...period.  Have fun with her, but never fool yourself that it is something that it's not.   Save that for someone that does who deserves it and you will be happier for it in the end.

And if by "date" you mean spend money on her, don't do it.  Don't spend a dime.  Hang out with her and that's it.

[luvvsuNOT]

Hmm

You seem a genuine and nice guy. Which is why She is obviously fucking another guy and is not that much into you  ( noone does "stuff" with the "girls" in the weekend if they really like someone )

So yeah... like a previous post pointed out, I would not touch the phoneor anything but avoid her completely and see how she'll go berserk. Do that for 1-2 weeks. Meanwhile find a nice girl and fuck the bejesus out of her private and no so private parts.

When the aforementioned skank will finally talk to you, tell her very polite and firm that you have very high self esteem and deserve much better. ignore her some more until she shows up at your place. Then fuck the bejesus out of her private and no so private parts.

 

Fixed

[luvvsuNOT]

Simply,
Few things come to mind

1) She could be playing the game, blowing you off to see if you stick around. Women yap about everything. Most tell each other to blow a date off or cancel so it seems they have lots going on.

2) Did you ask her if she is dating others. Be honest with her, because it does seem you care to an extent ifi she is. It probably bothers you a tad.

3) If you are getting emotionally attached, find out how she is feeling. If the vibe isnt right, then cut ties

Ignore this post. If you want advice on women the last person to ask is a women. What they say they want and what they really want are two different things. And half the time they don't even really know what they want. The sharp guys realize this in high school when all the girls say they want nice guys. They want nice guys as friends to talk to and give them rides and help them carry and move their stuff but the ones they want to get plowed by are the bad boys.

BTW, this only applies to American women and most modern Western societies where the roles of men and women have been blurred. American women are the worse, though.