does being in-shape/being good looking make you a target for violence?

[lesaucer]

what makes them look at you like they wanna rip your fucking head off is your make-up, orangeade tan and metro/gay clothes. its not because you have abs, twink, in shirt, you look like any other regular guy shape who just go to the gym once in a while. I suggest wearing some regular fucking nike t-shirt and leave the metro look at the club, where your dirt ass ed hardy loving bitches are.

[johnnynoname]

The only thing stopping me getting this a lot more from guys is my size.

Whenever i have taken a break for 3-4 weeks from training i lose enough fullness towards the end of the break and i do get the tough guys giving me dirty looks. Once i size starts coming back within 2 weeks i get nothing again.

I've had it a few times anyway from guys out with their GF's. Or guys coming up to their GF's while out if they get separated and too close to me  . "The Situation" is right with what he says about entering a bar.

I can see JNN getting it badly being a smaller good looking guy.

I agree



I am good looking

[webcake]

yes, i am good looking and people hate me.

[Doug_Steele]

yes, i am good looking and people hate me.

Paul Hogan hates me. 

[webcake]

I hate you too

[Ursus]

When I was around the 210lb mark yea. Though I was only 19 then.

Though the bigger I get the less trouble I find myself in (not that I ever really was in trouble). Though people in the gym will go out of their way to say hello and chat to me. Not a bad thing just a tad inconvenient at times.

Probaly a mind fuck seeing a dork over 6'3 and weighing 250lbs.

[dyslexic]

I hate you too

You guys are freakin' hilarious. Damn!

[Flexb]

It's never been an issue for me. I always got asked if people start fights with me at bars and shit because of my size and look but I honestly never seemed to get anything but respect or just jealous looks from pussies that once push comes to shove, they're putting their nose to the ground.

[IrishMuscle84]

long story short

whenever i go to the mall (anywhere in public for that matter) i get the most violent looks from other guys- I mean, like they want to beat the shit out of mean.

Now, mind you, i'm not the paranoid type either

I mean, i feel like jackie chan in the last 15 minutes of every one of his movies from the late 80's with how many dudes i have to potentially fight off

anyone else?

Do you know what that is though??? Thier simply JEALOUS, AND INTIMIDATED of you and feel insecure about how they look. And that look of them wanting to fight is simply thier defense mechanism to thier insecurity. Very common among guys, because when it comes down to it, deep down, EVERY GUY wants to be big and muscular, plain and simple. Again wanting to fight is thier Defense mechanism for feeling insecure about how they look.

[Parker]

I agree



I am good looking

Straight out of Jean Paul's mouth


I Am

[Ursus]

I don't understand how some of my friends can be in so many altercations. Hell I do the door and I don't get into any altercations.

[just_a_pilgrim]

Do you know what that is though??? Thier simply JEALOUS, AND INTIMIDATED of you and feel insecure about how they look. And that look of them wanting to fight is simply thier defense mechanism to thier insecurity. Very common among guys, because when it comes down to it, deep down, EVERY GUY wants to be big and muscular, plain and simple. Again wanting to fight is thier Defense mechanism for feeling insecure about how they look.

THANK YOU i am glad someone can see it. I barely mention it because no-one gets it.

Though while many feel that way not all want to fight but you only remember the dickheads.


Are you the IrishMuscle who had the thread on BBing.com about being with one sister and getting with the other?

[Doug_Steele]

I hate you too

I may have to move to Australia. 

[polychronopolous]

A little "sister twister" , no better time on earth.

[io856]

men don't really think like this

[Flexb]

Do you know what that is though??? Thier simply JEALOUS, AND INTIMIDATED of you and feel insecure about how they look. And that look of them wanting to fight is simply thier defense mechanism to thier insecurity. Very common among guys, because when it comes down to it, deep down, EVERY GUY wants to be big and muscular, plain and simple. Again wanting to fight is thier Defense mechanism for feeling insecure about how they look.

yes, but wanting to fight and kick your ass, is to prove to them self they're still the better man even though you look better

[Cardfan]

men don't really think like this

X2
Man up. I'm good looking and I don't obsess on this. Fight when you have to. Avoid it when you can and move on. What an attention whore.

[SF1900]

When you're better looking, smarter, richer, etc, than other people, they will be jealous.

Remember what Nietzsche said:

I draw circles around me and sacred boundaries; ever fewer ascend with
me on ever higher mountains: I build a mountain-range out of ever
holier mountains.

[CARTEL]

A lot of delusional narcism in this thread.

[johnnynoname]

A lot of delusional narcism in this thread.

given the threadstarter, I don't know how that is a surprise

[Wiggs]

long story short

whenever i go to the mall (anywhere in public for that matter) i get the most violent looks from other guys- I mean, like they want to beat the shit out of mean.

Now, mind you, i'm not the paranoid type either

I mean, i feel like jackie chan in the last 15 minutes of every one of his movies from the late 80's with how many dudes i have to potentially fight off

anyone else?

1.  It aint for you being in shape cause unless you're walking around shirtless no one will know.
2. Your vulture like beak took away any hope of you being good looking you'll have to settle for just looking. Fix your beak Pinocchio and there might be hope.  Then consume something other than skittles and hot pockets.  Finally those large metal plates you lay your gym bag on while you're waiting for your spin class?  Yeah, you might want to lift those every now and than to at least look like you can defend yourself. Hope this helps...

[Wiggs]

i get where people get jealous a big dudes but i'm , as stated previously 5'11 and 155 pounds.......however, i'm fucking ripped

No, you're starving...eat.

[Topskin69]

Since hardly any Getbiggers meet your criteria, they don't have to worry about potential violence.  

As for me... I find my extra size keeps me out of a lot of trouble, but I never wear any douche bodybuilding clothing, so I don't really call any attention to myself.

An example off it helping off the top of my head.... I gave driving a Taxi cab a shot for about a year, and many of the other drivers in our company had problems with being held up by gunpoint, problems with passengers, etc, but I avoided it. There were a few times, that it looked like it was going to get a bit sketchy, but I think my size served as a deterrent. This has also been true for various Security, bouncing jobs, etc, that I have had over the years.

[johnnynoname]

1.  It aint for you being in shape cause unless you're walking around shirtless no one will know.
2. Your vulture like beak took away any hope of you being good looking you'll have to settle for just looking. Fix your beak Pinocchio and there might be hope.  Then consume something other than skittles and hot pockets.  Finally those large metal plates you lay your gym bag on while you're waiting for your spin class?  Yeah, you might want to lift those every now and than to at least look like you can defend yourself. Hope this helps...

ouch.

[Mr Nobody]

Since hardly any Getbiggers meet your criteria, they don't have to worry about potential violence.  

As for me... I find my extra size keeps me out of a lot of trouble, but I never wear any douche bodybuilding clothing, so I don't really call any attention to myself.

An example off it helping off the top of my head.... I gave driving a Taxi cab a shot for about a year, and many of the other drivers in our company had problems with being held up by gunpoint, problems with passengers, etc, but I avoided it. There were a few times, that it looked like it was going to get a bit sketchy, but I think my size served as a deterrent. This has also been true for various Security, bouncing jobs, etc, that I have had over the years.

Good point right there, dont flaunt your size or muscularity and there usually is not a problem with others, you can always rip your shirt off when needed to scare some twinks.