does being in-shape/being good looking make you a target for violence?

[Natural Man]

long story short

whenever i go to the mall (anywhere in public for that matter) i get the most violent looks from other guys- I mean, like they want to beat the shit out of mean.

Now, mind you, i'm not the paranoid type either

I mean, i feel like jackie chan in the last 15 minutes of every one of his movies from the late 80's with how many dudes i have to potentially fight off

anyone else?

you might want to reconsider this statement judging by what you re saying here.
Typical traits of paranoia in my book.

The only problem is that your paranoia is based on facts. Does being aware of what s truly going on (people being jealous of you) qualifies as being paranoid? These people who hate you are actually as paranoid as you. You re not going to steal their gf, and if they feel like she would go with you is because they are insecure about themselves and what they bring her to the table well what can you do about it, it's not like it's your fault. On a side note if you dont want other men to be jealous of you, why show off hoping you will actually look better than them? see, you re part of the problem, noone's innocent.
You cant have it both ways; seducing women and hoping their bfs wont hate you for doing so.

Height also plays a big part, you re quite small and short, but muscular and not so bad looking. They see you as a muscular twink, and if they happen to be taller than you they will think that whatever muscle mass you carry they would still beat the shit out of you if a fight had to occur. They might be right, or they might br wrong, but point is that if you were TALLER than em they wouldnt act so mean.

All men judge other men and compare themselves to them. All men are envious, jealous, if someone happen to be taller, better looking, or more muscular/in shape than them. Same shit goes between women on other criterias.

Always been that way and always will be, that's how animals act, that's how nature works. You d better get used to it cause you re never going to look like tyson or lesnar, so you will always be looked down by men who are taller/heavier than you. You will rassure yourself saying stuff like "yeah but their gf would love to fuck me", and you might be right, and they ll rassure themselves saying stuff like "what a twink , im bigger/taller than him id make him my bitch in a fight, and my girl knows it .."

to each his strenghts and weaknesses. Chances are high their gf will get bored of their general stupidity and fake machismo  and will eventually find out they re just insecure losers. That day you re the one they ll be looking for. A more feminine, comprehensive and good looking, caring Man.

The future is yours, not theirs, of that i am sure. Women are getting more and more bored of the beefy unable to communicate cheating insecure and dumb macho man.

[Flexb]

Good point right there, dont flaunt your size or muscularity and there usually is not a problem with others, you can always rip your shirt off when needed to scare some twinks.

When I see guys do that it makes me laugh; they look like such tools, even if they have some size. Nothing like a bar fight at 3am in winter weather and seeing two guys take their shirts off to fight. lol I remember one guy was held on the ground facing down by the bouncers and didn't have a shirt on. It was a bitter cold night, probably about -10. They guy had smashed the front window of the club and the bouncers were holding him until the cops came. When the bouncers finally let him up as the cops arrived, his whole stomach looked like cardboard. I can't even imagine the extent of the brutal frost bite right there

[johnnynoname]

you might want to reconsider this statement judging by what you re saying here.
Typical traits of paranoia in my book.

The only problem is that your paranoia is based on facts. And these people who hate you are actually as paranoid as you. You re not going to steal their gf, and if they feel like she would go with you is because they are insecure about themselves and what they bring her to the table.

Height also plays a big part, you re quite small and short, but muscular and not so bad looking. They see you as a muscular twink, and if they happen to be taller than you they will think that whatever muscle mass you carry they would still beat the shit out of you. They might be right, or they might br wrong, but point is that if you were TALLER than em they wouldnt act so mean.

All men judge other men and compare themselves to them. All men are envious, jealous, if someone happen to be taller, better looking, or more muscular/in shape than them. Same shit goes between women on other criterias.

Always been that way and always will be, that's how animals act, that's how nature works.

all good points (except for the "Short" part- unless 5'11 is short, these days)

my thing is this- the men in this area of the country shouldn't be jealous of me because my particular look (combined with my age and occupation(s) ) actually works against me in the "mating game"

see, girls around here want "marriage material" when they look for a man which is common in fairly suburban areas- even the ugly ones who should just settle for what they get

when they (women) see a tan, shredded, well manicured 31 year old personal trainer/stripper- they don't think how sexy he is.  Rather, they see the fact that their is no way i could settle down and they are, automatically, turned off by me. 

so, if anything, most of the average joes who want to beat the shit out of me shouldn't be jealous at all  because THEY are the ones at a ADVANTAGE when it comes to the mating game in Albany

btw, you may ask yourself, "so, how do you get laid if no one is attracted to you in Albany?" 
Thankfully, i will settle for a bathroom BJ after a bachlorette party in lieu of penetration for the time being

[Natural Man]

i heavily edited my prev post, check it again.

Has nothign to do with the "part of the world you live in", insecurities between men based on looks height and muscle mass are the same worldwide.

Im pretty sure all women ideally want a guy that is rich (but if he just brings enough money it's good enough for most), looks good (if he looks very good that's a bonus) and is mature enough to raise their child and stay loyal to them. Most women even if the guy isnt loyal to them would still stay with him as long as the others parts are ok. They know men will always come back to their "substitute of a mom".

You look good by today standards, are immature and aint rich, but you can work on both. Not everyone can look good whatever amount of work they put in this endeavour so that's quite an advantage for you to start with. Now on the "being loyal and a good father" part, it all depends of your life experience and that too can be worked on. It's all a matter of work. Conditionning yourself repeatedely until you obtain good enough  results is the key.

[johnnynoname]

i heavily edited my prev post, check it again.

Has nothign to do with the "part of the world you live in", insecurities between men based on looks height and muscle mass are the same worldwide.

i'm particularly found of the conclusion of said edits

mind you, granted, i am a bit "feminine looking" but I did almost play for the Red's*



^{*pointed out so people don't think i "Throw like a girl" because of my looks}

[Mr Nobody]

When I see guys do that it makes me laugh; they look like such tools, even if they have some size. Nothing like a bar fight at 3am in winter weather and seeing two guys take their shirts off to fight. lol I remember one guy was held on the ground facing down by the bouncers and didn't have a shirt on. It was a bitter cold night, probably about -10. They guy had smashed the front window of the club and the bouncers were holding him until the cops came. When the bouncers finally let him up as the cops arrived, his whole stomach looked like cardboard. I can't even imagine the extent of the brutal frost bite right there

Sometimes it does not work.

[Tapeworm]

Sometimes it does not work.

 

[Wiggs]

Johnny you're still my bottom bitch.

[johnnynoname]

Johnny you're still my bottom bitch.

so, I'll assume that you will see me if i have to stoop to working at KRAVE if going broke in LV

[Wiggs]

so, I'll assume that you will see me if i have to stoop to working at KRAVE if going broke in LV

I'll see you even if you have to stoop to working the streets on Tropicana and Dean Martin.

[KevinP85]

Lots of studs in this thread!

[Palpatine Q]

all good points (except for the "Short" part- unless 5'11 is short, these days)

my thing is this- the men in this area of the country shouldn't be jealous of me because my particular look (combined with my age and occupation(s) ) actually works against me in the "mating game"

see, girls around here want "marriage material" when they look for a man which is common in fairly suburban areas- even the ugly ones who should just settle for what they get

when they (women) see a tan, shredded, well manicured 31 year old personal trainer/stripper- they don't think how sexy he is.  Rather, they see the fact that their is no way i could settle down and they are, automatically, turned off by me. 

so, if anything, most of the average joes who want to beat the shit out of me shouldn't be jealous at all  because THEY are the ones at a ADVANTAGE when it comes to the mating game in Albany

btw, you may ask yourself, "so, how do you get laid if no one is attracted to you in Albany?" 
Thankfully, i will settle for a bathroom BJ after a bachlorette party in lieu of penetration for the time being

All bullshit aside....that's on the money.

They look at you the same way a guy looks at stripper...they want to fuck you, but they ain't bringing you around the family.

When i was about your age i was regarded the same way...I asked a very good female friend of mine why it was i always manged to bang hot chicks, but the good, stable, normal girls really didn't come too easy for me.

She said "you're a Mimbo...pretty to look at and play with, but most girls are just looking for a stable regular Joe when it comes time to settle down....you are nothing but trouble, and the smart girls know it"

[johnnynoname]

All bullshit aside....that's on the money.

They look at you the same way a guy looks at stripper...they want to fuck you, but they ain't bringing you around the family.

When i was about your age i was regarded the same way...I asked a very good female friend of mine why it was i always manged to bang hot chicks, but the good, stable, normal girls really didn't come too easy for me.

She said "you're a Mimbo...pretty to look at and play with, but most girls are just looking for a stable regular Joe when it comes time to settle down....you are nothing but trouble, and the smart girls know it"

see, i knew i was right all along

[stuntmovie]

Tropicana and Dean Martin is "In n Out Burger" if I'm not mistaken.

More than likely the busiest hamburger joint in the western USA.

You'd do good there, Johnny.

Or is it the Wild Wild West and Denny's? You'd do well there too!

But Krave is a horse of a different color.

[Hulkotron]

Bodybuilding use to attract insecure guys who felt better about themself after a cycle of juice.  Now these same insecure guys are taking MMA type lessons instead of bodybuilding. 

Good observation.

[tbombz]

johnny if you had a good looking face as well you problems would be cured. honest truth, not trying to be mean.

[johnnynoname]

johnny if you had a good looking face as well you problems would be cured. honest truth, not trying to be mean.

tbombz

with all due respect but you have a real hard on for my face- it's like the second time you've mentioned something about my mug

not everyone is a blonde haired gringo like you bro- some of use have to work with what we got.  I have a big nose and I work around that by growing out my hair

[The Wizard of Truth]

JNN is not ugly by any stretch of the imagination

[CalvinH]

Nah,not me,but then I look like a trouble maker anyway

[G_Thang]

long story short

whenever i go to the mall (anywhere in public for that matter) i get the most violent looks from other guys- I mean, like they want to beat the shit out of mean.

Now, mind you, i'm not the paranoid type either

I mean, i feel like jackie chan in the last 15 minutes of every one of his movies from the late 80's with how many dudes i have to potentially fight off

anyone else?

u lean johnny boy but aint that good lookin.  a lotta vanity (not prince's x) in you.

99% of black women aint interested in



taimak

[johnnynoname]

u lean johnny boy but aint that good lookin.  a lotta vanity (not prince's x) in you.

99% of black aint interested in



taimak

shit, if i look like taimak (who is half Wop like myself) then i would consider myself blessed

JNN is not ugly by any stretch of the imagination

I agree with this

[johnnynoname]

Nah,not me,but then I look like a trouble maker anyway

you wear your hat backwards and have a slingshot in your back pocket, right?

[CalvinH]

you wear your hat backwards and have a slingshot in your back pocket, right?

Lol,and I pull all the girls pigtails!

[johnnynoname]

Lol,and I pull all the girls pigtails!

and blow off your genitals at one of those hand dryers in the men's bathroom at the mall and yell "hey look- i'm getting a blowjob".....but enough about what my 10 year old nephew did the other day at the mall

[SusanFitness]

hahaha, does this powder-puff really think dudes are mean mugging him because he looks so handsome.
they're probably wondering why this phagott keeps staring at them .