Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?

[Balloon]

I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race

[Parker]

Yes, you love someone, you love someone. Simple as that. There is no such thing as being colorblind. It's okay to take notice of a diff race.

[WillGrant]

Who cares what others think bro..if you are in love with someone who gives a fuk what colour they are

[Azn Muscle]

It depends, are you upgrading or downgrading 

[spinnis]

Fine looking black biatch = Ok.

Ugly black biatch = Not ok.

[newmom]

No it shouldn't matter what others think. It can bring havoc to a relationship. Plenty of friends that date outside their race. Like I have said before (no offense against the sistahs) but they usually pop off to the white girl if she is with a black guy. Does it make it right or wrong, Im no judge, but IMO not worth it

[Spike]

black chicks are fine ass.....and there are plenty out there - dont get me wrong

and interracial relationships are fine - i dated/whatev a few outside my 'kind' - no grips whatsoever

its the shitbags and this western north carolina shit I see EVERYDAY at least 4-5times

this shit that grinds my gears is when I see some FAT white pasty ass bitch/ho driving a 1995 dodge neon with 'carolina girl' or 'baby phat' riding on 13'' hub caps from walmart

and she got some knee grow who doesnt know his ass from his head, no job, sells a few dimes and thinks he nino brown, thinks he's hard cause he did 6months in JAIL not prison for stealing shit outta cars, either with some wack ass dreads or a fckd up ass homemade fade, riding shotgun or better yet drivin HER car knowin his ass dont have any insurance

i know its the classic "well what white guy wants that shit, or she can get a skinny ngg" thats cool -----

its just my friend from middle school (yes he's black) does this - his fat pasty bitch works at TX Roadhouse and he is totally dependent on her - of course they have a lil oreo kid and he has another one with another fat white bitch - doesnt pay child support, no job, uses food stamps to buy muscle milk drink boxes, sells a few blunts to the homies, but all in all homies is broke and that white bitch rides his ass worse than a black chick would

I think they date white women cause a black chick would make em get a job

[Parker]

Spike you couldn't have said it better...now this thread needs to go away...

[devilsmile]

Yes, you love lust someone, you love lust someone. Simple as that. There is no such thing as being colorblind. It's okay to take notice of a diff race.

fixed for truth  

[G_Thang]

grant...tell her i'd drink her tub water.  italian dont matter to me.

as far as interracial...

getwhite b###hes.  

[Parker]

fixed for truth  

Quite true, and actually...no wait, I will not get into it.

[devilsmile]

Quite true, and actually...no wait, I will not get into it.

 

you humans... so silly.... it's like, when you have a head ake and tirred after work you can't do anything... unless some hot girl tells you all of a sudden she wants to be licked and fucked all over, oh THEN You can do anything again 

then god decided to seperate all of you after you tried to build the tower of babel, you couldn't do shit together anymore... what a great god  ... me? I don't do shit like that  , I bring people together, I want you to find inner peace and get along with eachother.. you don't need these oldschool god rules in the back of your head 

[Eyeball Chambers]

Is it wrong of me to look at interracial relationships negatively? 

[devilsmile]

Is it wrong of me to look at interracial relationships negatively?  

to look at anything differend from you negatively is silly... why won't you expand yourself, expand your mind... embrace your self... all your life you're trying to be something else... try to be enhanced version of your self, picture yourself as something, how would you want to be in this existance in your wildest dreams, picture that and then strive for it.

the thing is, you don't even know the people you "don't like", why dislike them? Because someone gave the a stigma? come now  

[Spike]

to look at anything differend from you negatively is silly... why won't you expand yourself, expand your mind... embrace your self... all your life you're trying to be something else... try to be enhanced version of your self, picture yourself as something, how would you want to be in this existance in your wildest dreams, picture that and then strive for it.

the thing is, you don't even know the people you "don't like", why dislike them? Because someone gave the a stigma? come now  

YOU really expect me to give this guy a chance at being a contributing member of society - cause that is what your missing

some people are shit no matter how you look at it - they'll live in a trailor and stock gorceries, smoke meth til they die - how does that affect your life or if you accept that how does it enlighten you??

got his oreo kid pics on the wall - no job - dressed like he still in high school -------- what can he offer me??

cant fix my computer
cant tailor my suit
cant change my oil
prob collects welfare from the state taxes they take from my check PLUS I'm prob payin for this fcks food and kids healthcare

[Mr Nobody]

Fine looking black biatch = Ok.

Ugly black biatch = Not ok.

Swede bringing the truth in simple words.

[devilsmile]

YOU really expect me to give this guy a chance at being a contributing member of society - cause that is what your missing

some people are shit no matter how you look at it - they'll live in a trailor and stock gorceries, smoke meth til they die - how does that affect your life or if you accept that how does it enlighten you??

I told you that looking anything differend from you negatively is silly... It means in english, that if something is differend and you don't know anything about it, you shouldn't think negatively about it.

The same way nobody knows are the coming aliens hostile... why think they are hostile, you don't know them, why you think they should be banished, you don't know them.... same thing with interracial mirrages, you don't know the interracial people, so don't be thinking bad about them.

[Spike]

I told you that looking anything differend from you negatively is silly... It means in english, that if something is differend and you don't know anything about it, you shouldn't think negatively about it.

The same way nobody knows are the coming aliens hostile... why think they are hostile, you odn't know them, why you think they should be banished, you don't know them.... same thing with interracial mirrages, you don't know the interracial people, so don't be thinking bad about them.

i gotcha now

I thought you were saying we had to accept the fact this fck is diff --- I could care less until his shit starts staining my life

I try not to be judgmental - I grew up in upstate NY but I live in NC so my head is on backward

 

[muscularny]

obviously hes asking as he does care and many people especially bodybuilders do care what other people think, even thou most here yell they train for health reasons only

if shes hot great, but the real issue is black girls need constant reassuring from a white guy that you do see them as a long term thing

lol funny how all white guys say the same bullshit (pre fuck obviously)

black girl: so how do you feel about dating a girl of color
white guy: oh my brother married a black girl, they have 2 kids

fast forward 30 minutes and you are banging

I also feel its a stage for many guys, we go thru the stage of going after milfs, then you figure out that 99.9% its not worth it, many go thru the asian stage and black girl phase etc

[devilsmile]

what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.

[muscularny]

libral junky

[devilsmile]

Who gives a shit about interracial relationships? Is this something you spend a lot of time thinking about? If you see a chick you like, go for it, doesn't matter if she's blue or green or whatever.

no if it's outside from your race then you have to really underline the genetic difference from the women of your own race and embrace it, other wise you're racist (american logic) 

[phreak]

what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.

You sound like you love you some Nesquik semen.

[K-1]

Nothing wrong with interracial relations in my book ,and I've never gotten any hassle about it.

I think it's actually very over rated issue, but I know there are certain "areas" of the country where ignorance (whether it's pure or just plain dumb ignorance) still exists and this is in every community imo. It's a small % just like most things.

The stereotypical "interracial couple" most envision when the term is used is generally a "darker" toned person (male/female) with a "pale/light" toned person (male/female) with certain feature characteristics

The funny thing about that is both can be of the same ethnic background yet some would think one is per se "black/afro-american" because of their skin tone,course of hair..etc and one is white due to their skin tone, course of hair, eyes..etc....... When they both are actually Cuban.

My ex wife is Panamanian and puerto rican, my current wife is Jamaican ......both have in one point in time been asked some of the dumbest sh*t you can possibly imagine by individuals who are just plain ignorant or just are not in the know. My current wife who is Jamaican was actually asked "When did you learn to speak english?" .....LMAO....I laughed, but yes...there are some who are just not up to speed on things.

What is even funnier is with my ex wife most assumed I was Hispanic. With my current wife, most assume I'm Jamaican...LOL ..All because they'd either hear their accents when they speak or finally got the chance to meet me and they assume I'm the same ethnicity.
 
In the end we are all the same. Just people.

[Eyeball Chambers]

I just don't like the idea of people doing away with their own race, (black or white) when they reproduce.