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Internet dating - does it work?
« on: April 27, 2010, 06:20:11 PM »
Hey, I've been on two dates through a free dating site. Both really sucked and I couldn't wait to get out of there.

The girls' pictures are good but when I show up they barely resemble it. Why are girls wasting time like this?

Anyway, wondering if anyone else had any success.

I'm trying to line up this date with this Asian MILF the weekend after this, so I won't give up before that.
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2010, 06:21:37 PM »
It only works if you want it to work.
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2010, 06:22:55 PM »
Something you get the elevator, sometimes the shaft.  :D

(or something like that)

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2010, 06:25:56 PM »
it works if you work it, so work it............cause YOUR worth it.

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #4 on: April 27, 2010, 06:28:43 PM »
it works if you work it, so work it............cause YOUR worth it.
That's very inspiring.

I had to sit around a campfire for two hours just to be "nice" with a girl I didn't even find attractive.
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #5 on: April 27, 2010, 06:29:37 PM »
guy at work met his wife on plenty of fish

lots of friends and coworkers use dating sites with varying success

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #6 on: April 27, 2010, 06:32:42 PM »
guy at work met his wife on plenty of fish

lots of friends and coworkers use dating sites with varying success

i hear alot of dudes talk about how many chicks you can fuck on POF

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #7 on: April 27, 2010, 06:34:49 PM »
it works HOWEVER it is so impersonal that it just doesn't feel right

you know, most of the excitement of dating is the "thrill of the hunt".  That is, it is fun to go to a bar, see a pretty girl, work up the nerve to talk to her and she talks back to your

dating/mating is one of the things that still keeps us in touch with our animal instincts- the internet just dulls the whole experience

online dating takes all that fun/excitement away
however, there are ALOT of hot girls on some of these websites

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #8 on: April 27, 2010, 06:35:58 PM »
i hear alot of dudes talk about how many chicks you can fuck on POF

Yeah, I hear that too, but I have tried it and there are not a ton of hot chicks on there and the ones that are hot are so damn demanding its ridiculous
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #10 on: April 27, 2010, 06:37:25 PM »
it works HOWEVER it is so impersonal that it just doesn't feel right

you know, most of the excitement of dating is the "thrill of the hunt".  That is, it is fun to go to a bar, see a pretty girl, work up the nerve to talk to her and she talks back to your

dating/mating is one of the things that still keeps us in touch with our animal instincts- the internet just dulls the whole experience

online dating takes all that fun/excitement away
however, there are ALOT of hot girls on some of these websites

I was just gonna mention the thread you started a few weeks back.  Most of these girls are closet sluts who are easy to fuck.  Just don't make them feel like a slut, and pretend you're interested in more than a one night stand.  I fucked at least 10 in the few months I was on POF.  But like JNN said, it gets old - especially if you'd rather find a girl to settle down with... 

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #11 on: April 27, 2010, 06:41:27 PM »
Hey, I've been on two dates through a free dating site. Both really sucked and I couldn't wait to get out of there.

The girls' pictures are good but when I show up they barely resemble it. Why are girls wasting time like this?

Anyway, wondering if anyone else had any success.

I'm trying to line up this date with this Asian MILF the weekend after this, so I won't give up before that.

collect as much infos as possible BEFORE meeting em, dont hesitate to ask pussy ass boobs shots  

and several facial pics too, from dif angles

describe yourself with precision too without giving personal informations of course. Internet is an incredibly powerful tool to select people.

ask em a precise self description . Most of the time if women cant write something interesting you can be sure they have nothing to say in real life.

As a last resort, you can chat with em using a webcam... but it often turns into a masturbating contest.

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #12 on: April 27, 2010, 06:42:32 PM »
Just don't make them feel like a slut, and pretend you're interested in more than a one night stand.

then again, that is sort of a general rule as well

you do make the good point about how easy it is to hook up

i'm assuming it is because i never went on any dates with the girls i corresponded with but i could tell that they were hurting for a squirting

again, i'm a odd case because the best part of asking out a girl is the chance that she might say yes or no.

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #13 on: April 27, 2010, 06:46:28 PM »
then again, that is sort of a general rule as well

you do make the good point about how easy it is to hook up

i'm assuming it is because i never went on any dates with the girls i corresponded with but i could tell that they were hurting for a squirting

again, i'm a odd case because the best part of asking out a girl is the chance that she might say yes or no.

well...are you REALLY looking for a girl that corresponds you? or just stupid trashy bimbos ?

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #14 on: April 27, 2010, 06:51:52 PM »
well...are you REALLY looking for a girl that corresponds you? or just stupid trashy bimbos ?

honestly, i was just "trying it out" to see what the fuss was about

it's odd because the trashy bimbo's that i can normally schmooze with at a bar/club and win over with my looks/awesome foreign accent (btw, the accent ALWAYS works) wouldn't write me back on the internet.

it's hard to use bullshit online cause eye contact is the most important part to selling any "grift" and internet dating is devoid of any way to make eye contact

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #15 on: April 27, 2010, 06:54:06 PM »
honestly, i was just "trying it out" to see what the fuss was about

it's odd because the trashy bimbo's that i can normally schmooze with at a bar/club and win over with my looks/awesome foreign accent (btw, the accent ALWAYS works) wouldn't write me back on the internet.

it's hard to use bullshit online cause eye contact is the most important part to selling any "grift" and internet dating is devoid of any way to make eye contact

JNN the Internet changes things, online a girl could/most likely look at your pic and think you are out of their league. In person you are talking to them and as you say have the eye contact. The internet just has different bullshit  :D

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #16 on: April 27, 2010, 06:56:12 PM »
It depends. My friend found his ex there. If you really want to go with the internet. I would try on Facebook. It is less creepy.  
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #17 on: April 27, 2010, 06:56:33 PM »
honestly, i was just "trying it out" to see what the fuss was about

it's odd because the trashy bimbo's that i can normally schmooze with at a bar/club and win over with my looks/awesome foreign accent (btw, the accent ALWAYS works) wouldn't write me back on the internet.

it's hard to use bullshit online cause eye contact is the most important part to selling any "grift" and internet dating is devoid of any way to make eye contact
exactly

I don't have any desire to internet date...

1) you have to pay for a "date"
2) you can't determine physical attraction
3) laugh, mannerisms, eye contact and all those little things that make somebody attractive
4) posture, stance, scent, level of frigidness etc etc

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #18 on: April 27, 2010, 06:57:37 PM »
honestly, i was just "trying it out" to see what the fuss was about

it's odd because the trashy bimbo's that i can normally schmooze with at a bar/club and win over with my looks/awesome foreign accent (btw, the accent ALWAYS works) wouldn't write me back on the internet.

it's hard to use bullshit online cause eye contact is the most important part to selling any "grift" and internet dating is devoid of any way to make eye contact

The NoGame is right here.  It's actually harder to hook up with a girl from the internet than it would be at a bar - especially if you have a good build and can spit some game.  The girls on these sites are inundated with hundreds of messages from horny dudes and all they have to go on is your pic, and your message with no context.  That said, it's still not that tough to pull some tail because you throw a bunch of lines in the water and just see what bites.   

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #19 on: April 27, 2010, 06:58:22 PM »
Plenty of fish is a great site. Its 100% free and cuts out alot of the BS in dating. Easy to hook up with people with common interests in your area. I say give it a try.
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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #20 on: April 27, 2010, 07:00:09 PM »
JNN the Internet changes things, online a girl could/most likely look at your pic and think you are out of their league. In person you are talking to them and as you say have the eye contact. The internet just has different bullshit  :D

"your pic" as in "me" specifically?

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #21 on: April 27, 2010, 07:03:33 PM »
"your pic" as in "me" specifically?

Yeh Bro :), you are in shape and a good looking guy (gay looking but anyway ;D) it would put you ahead of the vast majority of guys out there and especially ugly horny guys on the Intamanet

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #22 on: April 27, 2010, 07:05:19 PM »
The NoGame is right here.  It's actually harder to hook up with a girl from the internet than it would be at a bar - especially if you have a good build and can spit some game.  The girls on these sites are inundated with hundreds of messages from horny dudes and all they have to go on is your pic, and your message with no context.  That said, it's still not that tough to pull some tail because you throw a bunch of lines in the water and just see what bites.   

exactly

if a bitch ho gets a email from me, on a dating site, they will then go to my profile and see my pics

even the biggest slut will look at my pic and totally think i'm a douchebag and dismiss immediately.  Remember, girls do end up with douchebags but they don't know that they are douchebags because they are blinded by whatever "game" said douchebag is using.  (btw, the exception to this rule is when you are a gay male because being inshape, vain and tan will always get you a response with the gays)

now, picking up a girl in personal allows you to  use whatever trickery you need to use to distract her from the fact that you have better shaped eyebrows than her

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #23 on: April 27, 2010, 07:08:08 PM »
Yeh Bro :), you are in shape and a good looking guy (gay looking but anyway ;D) it would put you ahead of the vast majority of guys out there and especially ugly horny guys on the Intamanet

ohhh

i thought you meant it like the other way around...like the girl would be out of my league (as in she is too hot for me)


while, in a perfect world, your above statement should be true- it isn't

see my previous about looking like a douchebag on the internet

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Re: Internet dating - does it work?
« Reply #24 on: April 27, 2010, 07:10:46 PM »
oh god I can but imagine the tools that must resort to internet dating  :D (not everybody in the internet dating scene)

i.e. similar to the pathetic gatherings at strip clubs