I'm a logic driven cynic, but I'm excited to get married. Felt the same as all the other depressed assholes until I met a woman who genuiniely changed my mind. No, I'm not in lust or confused with infatuation. She's woken up the Asian in me, and I've begun to appreciate the union of two people who want to bang exclusively... err, join hands in holy matrimony lol
We own a house together which is a huge thing out of the way. No joint account because she's finishing her registered nursing program first and just does care aid work when we need disposable income, so we've worked out a lot of challenges in the money area. We're pretty well off for a couple of kids who aren't even married yet, but our engagement ceremony was so massive it already feels like we're married.
Never intended on spending 8 grand on wedding photos or anything like that, but I can appreciate the fact that Asian weddings are a big thing so I suck it up and throw cash down without being cranky. Our guests will give us a ton of cash which will at least pay for their food, the venue and other expensizes so I'm excited. My fiance surprisingly asked me if I wanted to go balls to the wall and juice hard to freak out her relatives too. She's got a great family and great sense of humor. If we ever did split up then it'd kill me not seeing her family all the time.
Get married for the right reasons nd not because you've just been banging for a long consecutive amount of time. A lot of dopes rush it or get married before addressing deeply rooted issues in their relationship and they're aren't both willing to fight for their marriage. You shouldn't get married unless you're doing it with a person worth fighting tooth and nail for. It should go without saying, but look at the crazy divorce rates in North America. Its pitiful.
