Why are there so many getbiggers with regrets regarding their marriage

[Mr Nobody]

see there ya go right there. And when I see these brides on say yes to the dress show, Im like 10K on a dress..FUCK THAT

Goodwill has them for $10 all the same as long as you got some Tide detergent.

[stuntmovie]

MINDSPIN, CHE, You both made interesting statements someplace above. Thought provoking in fact,

Nicely said!

Thanks.

P.S. .... there are also penguins in the Hilton Hawaiian Village on Oahu.

[newmom]

MINDSPIN, CHE, You both made interesting statements someplace above. Thought provoking in fact,

Nicely said!

Thanks.

P.S. .... there are also penguins in the Hilton Hawaiian Village on Oahu.

 I agree, its refreshing to see a man that isnt bashing marriage. Big Ach didn't bash it. I would love to see what the females say (Stella did) but would love to hear it

[ShipSekki]

 I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com

[BIG ACH]

I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com

I see a lot of people complaining about the woman getting half their shit.  But men can also get half of the wive's shit too!  What are we living in the stone age?  Do all the women you guys know not work???   I know lots of guys married to women that make more money than they do LOL

[James28]

I think that in the USA marriage is not very good for a man at all.

 The marriage system in the USA is set up in such a way that the woman benefits in most ways, and the man sacrifices in most ways.

 And also many American women are hideous, stubborn beasts.

 www.nomarriage.com

I wouldn't say they're hideous stubborn beasts as I dated a few American gals living over here. They were normal, nice girls that offered good conversation and fun times when we were not talking ..

Always try and marry a woman that is richer than you are, otherwise they'd just come after your shit when it all falls apart. My only worthwhile possessions is my apartment I own outright and have on my brother's name, and my car. However, she owns the house we're living in as her father bought it for her/us outright. I trust the marriage will not end, but if it does, I'd be happy we go our different ways without trying to ponce stuff off each other. Should she do, I'll come after her house.

I've seen too many friends and colleagues get fucked over by biased judges and 2 bob whorey ex-wives. It's not going to be me one day 

[phreak]

I'm still happily married. And no, it shouldn't be hard work to keep things working out. If it is, you are doomed anyway and might as well get out now.

[Parker]

I'm happily married , I know Getbiggers won't believe me when I say this  but I fucked more than 200 chicks until I found the right one

  

This is the number I'm tryna hit...before I get married, 197 to go,lol!
On the real, women that I'm friends with say that I want kids---and I need to be married. I hate it when women say that...

[tbombz]

Marriage is unnatural and there is little to no upside for the man.  And, any marriage that actually endures is anything but easy.  Before I got married, I didn't quite understand why so many people got hitched and why it was so important to women.  It wasn't until the very moment that my wife's father handed her to me during the wedding, that I actually got it.  This man was entrusting me with the well being of his little girl.  It would now be up to me to ensure that she be protected and cared for.  Is marriage necessary in order for this to happen?  Perhaps not.  But I know that it made her & her father feel happier, just as my daughters and I will, when I hand them over one day.  

thats a nice story mindspin. glad your happy. but i must point out that that was only your experience. other people have different reasons for marriage, different things which make them see it as important or meanginful, different motivations and different expectations...    maybe you already knew that, not trying to lecture you  in your scenario what happens if the dad doesnt want to partake because he doesnt approve, or what happens if she doesnt have a dad at all? not only that, but you put alot of emphasis on 'responsibility for'... which i think is definitely a main principle, but i feel like the central concept to marriage should be love of one another for who they are as a person, on the inside..

[kreator]

with long relationships people defy laws of nature..........and then when they start getting sexually interested in other people, they go through hundreds of therapies and counselings just to ''figure out'' why they had the desire to fuck somebody else and not just the spouse

[tbombz]

What is the point of a wedding?  Weddings are for stupid shitbrains.  Take the money and invest it instead.

your going to make somebody cry with insults like that

[Stark]

I had my wedding in Latvia, all in all it cost less than 5k - but for that we got

1) A small hotel for ourself and our guests in a nature reserve with stunning view - 20 rooms - we had about 40 guests.
2) Incredible food - and there wasn't any shortage you could eat as much as you want
3) A ballon ride of a close friend into the sunset over Latvians counry side (incredible)
4) A band - I wanted one were they all were piano ties hahaha
5) Alcohol as much as any body wanted

We had a lot of Latvian traditions tied in which was very nice - in latvia you have your best friend organise the wedding for you so we had to do sweet fuck all which was incredible lucky for us since we both life in Ireland.

We spend most of our money on a honeymoon in Africa - which was probably the best time I had with her (apart from our first test holiday in Egyp which I booked without telling her we were just 2 month together and I had a lot of money on the side because I saved for a year and got a big redundancy payment - I didn't tell her booked it and asked her the day before if she fancies to come to Egypt for a week - she had some trouble finding an apartment so she stayed in my apartment so I was only too happy to make her stay in my apartment - I had only a small bed because I wanted to save as much money as possible after I broke up with my ex so I sleept on the floor - ah good times .
Anyways Africa was amazing - we did so much stuff which really strenghtens our realtionship.

Here is something for you fellas that still look for a possible partner for life... You never ever know if the person you meet is the one and only one that you will stick with until the end of your life - part of the fun is to jump into the dark and take a chance, but there are certain things you can watch out for to make sure you guys are compatible - and I am (due to my past history as a child) a very untrusting person.

1) If after a short time you can see that both of you can talk without talking and thinking alike
2) If the other half makes you laugh - and I mean realy hard laugh, for excample my ex never ever made me laugh and I mean whole heartly laugh, my wife on the other hand sometimes says things and makes jokes that crack me up.
3) This sounds cheesy but Its true at least for my part - I would happily trade my life for her life and I 100% mean that.

[Parker]

I see a lot of people complaining about the woman getting half their shit.  But men can also get half of the wive's shit too!  What are we living in the stone age?  Do all the women you guys know not work???   I know lots of guys married to women that make more money than they do LOL

What is half of 3 dozen Jimmy Choo Handbags? And Half of a 2 "persian rugs" bought from a flea market in Morocco? Half the shit women have no man wants. That's like having  12 yr old male twins and you go to Toys R' US, you give one twin the Baby section and the kiddie and the other The Video games, action figures, TV's, radio control toy's, model cars, all the good shit.  

[drkaje]

Skipped ahead.

I don't know 5 married guys (with kids) who would still be married if making a change weren't unaffordable or a severe interruption in time with their kids.

[The Showstoppa]

Skipped ahead.

I don't know 5 married guys (with kids) who would still be married if making a change weren't unaffordable or a severe interruption in time with their kids.

You need to find better quality friends...

[drkaje]

You need to find better quality friends...

LOL!

Loving someone doesn't mean you still like them.

Some women just get very lazy too comfortable in their marriage after having kids.

[The Showstoppa]

LOL!

Loving someone doesn't mean you still like them.

Some women just get very lazy too comfortable in their marriage after having kids.

That is true.  And so do a lot of guys....it used to kill me when one or the other, the fatter one, would come in the store and make comments about how the other one "needed to get in shape."  I'm looking at them and thinking.....maybe you could use a little work yourself there....funny that there were very few "fit" couples...

[drkaje]

That is true.  And so do a lot of guys....it used to kill me when one or the other, the fatter one, would come in the store and make comments about how the other one "needed to get in shape."  I'm looking at them and thinking.....maybe you could use a little work yourself there....funny that there were very few "fit" couples...

Some people just can't just don't feel the need to give a shit once their situation is secure.

[The True Adonis]

Though marriage isn't necessary, it helps the system because of the dad's who don't give a fuck about their kids. At least the wife can have wages garnished to get money to feed and raise the children.

I get really irked about father's who don't do anything (monetary or support) for their kids. I'm more than sure that all the dudes here that want to just fuck without use of birth control are some of the same guys who will end being a dead beat dad.

What about if you don`t give a fuck about kids to ever have any? 

[The Showstoppa]

What about if you don`t give a fuck about kids to ever have any? 

It's better to know that and not have them than the fools who reproduce haphazardly.

[Cleanest Natural]

I am married now 2 years, and my wife has not changed one bit, she is still the woman that I fell in love with 5 years ago.
She still hops on my lap in the morning and demands a kiss, she still makes my laugh and she still tries to give me lifting advice

In short either I am incredible lucky or the the rest of you guys (including 240) are just trying to be a little bit over the top.

I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated

[CalvinH]

I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated

LOL

[Man of Steel]

Being married to the one you love...that's easy.  The marriage itself....that's work.

[Natural Man]

Dont regret getting married because I got my son now but marriage just didnt work out. At the time I thought it was what I was sopposed to do at my age. Get married, have kids, blah blah blah. Being single is great, I am 33 and wont ever get married again!

looks like someone confused immaturity and fear of responsabilities with a wrong understanding of the principle of autonomy.

[YngiweRhoads]

I'm so fucking touched

I'd shed a tear but I am dehydrated

Hahaha!