Then you have a mentally stable group of friends and are semi-mentally stable yourself. They may not "like" them, but boy howdy, if that isn't the only types they will date.
Well I like to think I'm stable and I only surround myself with positive and well rounded people. Don't get me wrong got a girl I know, she always gets hurt, I'm like where do you find them. She is young, she is like a little sister I never had. But when us women are younger, we got to make those mistakes, in life in general, its how some of us become the confident, no holds barred women in our aging years