Some women think huge bodybuilders are sexy. Most women don't. So that applies to what men like in women. I must say that the female bodybuilders used to have potential but all that has been ruined in recent years. Natural gals, yes, but with original boobs, thanks. I really don't like all the fake crap that so many who are involved in female competitions do.
The men still have to perform with a woman. There is no universally accepted standard of beauty or sexiness. I laugh at the way Getbiggers talk about 'hitting' women. If you talked like that to most women you would need the internet for excitement.
Here is a thought experiment that men and women can do. Visualize your ideal of the opposite sex. Then imagine that they could be photoshopped into larger versions of that ideal. Most would accept larger versions as long as the attraction remained. The fat admirers are the same but a few don't have limits and get excited by really huge women. Of course, not all fat women are attractive. Some are apples and some are hourglass and others are pears. Valerie has unusually high and wide hips. Lots of admirers would fancy her. She would never be without a date.
What we shouldn't do is declare that others are gross or whatever. That is merely our opinion and it doesn't mean others should agree with us. Even if some do that doesn't make it universally right.
Most BBWs don't fancy muscle guys. Not sure why, but I imagine they associate big muscles with self-centeredness which is a turnoff for most women.
The black ladies have some of the best superpears.