Now now!
And I'm embarrassed to say I watch the jersey hosewives and I've seen a part of the jersey shore show too....that one is a bit over the top but for some reason those housewives shows r so crazy u can't look away! 
top dog is that Danielle really as wild as the show portrays? Are these shows scripted at all?
There's a little coffee shop in Franklin Lakes......the owner was called in advance and told they would be coming in to film and would that be a problem. The owner called a few friends to come over and get you face on tv for a few laughs. One was an acquaintance of mine who's wife went over and sat at a table in the background. She said the film crew came in, set up for a half hour and then in comes the two housewives. She said they just stand there with the cameras in their face trying to act like they're not there. She said it was such a joke because they even stopped once to have a do-over. So much for reality.
As far as Danielle.....she doesn't even live in Franklin Lakes, she lives in Wayne but hangs in FL...for the shows sake. Word is the show loves Danielle's craziness so they play it up.
The new Blonde who is new to the show and is playing both sides of the rivalry is froma very well to do family, the Granatele's, who are furious about this women's involvement.