I forgot to mention training... I would train allways, women or no...
And getting a woman because you can't live inside your head and you need someone to tell you you're good is fucking WEAK! You have to learn to live inside your head forever, if you can deal with that, then you can live with a woman because it wouldn't hurt you one bit to let her to fuck go lol

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Don't you stress yourself for some women, you know nothing about the pleasures of the universe. Secondly like I said, DO NOT need someone to tell you "you're allright", you dont' need nobody's permission to consider your self "ok"... you're perfect the way you are, if women don't want you, big deal! Focuse on other things.
Oh and are we talking about pussy or life partner? You don't simply get life partner that's a powerfull commitment, don't go there.