well..I think you have to stop trying so hard...women smell desperation and its a turn-off for them...you have to relax and let things happen...let the universe put a woman in front of you....but at the same time YOU have to act once that woman is there....
what I mean by this is that one day I was on the train thinking to myself that I need a nice woman in my life who wants me for me and who won't lie, cheat, be money hungry, etc like the others I have had......I told myself that I would just relax and let the universe work for me...that there are women out there for me and that I had to wait until I was given an opportunity...so I promised myself I would not go out of my way to attract women or talk with them..this made me much more relaxed and serene...
that very same day I went to an office building to attend a seminar and at the receptionist desk was a nice looking woman who didn't have on a ring and was really nice....so I said to her "how come you don't have a ring on that finger"?....and it went from there..now we are dating.....I just relaxed, let things happen,,...stopped acting desperate...and I met someone....but of course I had to also man up and reach out to her and make a move when it was appropriate to do so....I had to close the deal which some guys have trouble with....
I know some of you will say.."whats this universe bullshit"...I am a buddhist and I believe that you don't go out looking for objects which will fulfill you....you have to look to yourself to find out what you need to do to become fulfilled....you can't control women and make them like you..but you can control yourself and make yourself more likable and open to them..
don't drive yourself crazy wondering why women don't like you...go to the gym...change your wardrobe....relax....die t....be serene and not desperate...wait for an opportunity.then close the deal..you'll get some rejections but thats okay....you'll hit the jackpot soon enough