Yes I am a relatively old man compared to you if you are only in your twenties. As "the worst part of life is over" mentality, I don't agree. There was no worst part of my life. Overall, my life has been good and continues to be so. Nothing to lose? I have just as much to lose as anyone else. Sure, I already accomplished some things some folks your age have not accomplish so far, like getting married and having kids. I also have grandchildren. On of which is in her twenties. It's not like I am completely out of touch with folks your age. Actually, I have many acquaintances who are in their twenties. My daughter was in her twenties not so many years ago either. So I know how different ones perspective might be when they are younger than when they get older. For example, if I ever had drama in my life, it was when I was in my teens and twenties. As one ages they often mature and mellow, but not always. There are folks my age that are still really messed up.
Did I deny your description of what you believe are gender wars? I don't recall doing that. People, especially younger folks like yourself who are dating and not in a long term relationship (by long term, I mean one which lasts longer than a couple of years), are more likely to view their struggle to find someone as rife with pitfalls and disappointments. Truth is, many people are simply attracted to types who don't meet their long term needs. For example, many guys are attracted to "party girls" and young women who are glamorous and blatantly sexy and then they are disappointed when said girl isn't interested in settling down and becoming their house frau. Other guys are only looking for a good time and yet they find themselves with women who want to marry and have an army of children. These are not gender wars these are folks who are confused about what they want out of their romantic and/or sexual life.
Women are somewhat more independent today. After several generations of competing in the workforce, many women realize they don't need to have a man to take care of them. In fact when it comes to this, the tables have turned. Some men actually are stay at home husbands and dads because their wives have the ability to earn a better living than they do. So this is a change from times past. Although there have always been wealthy women. More often than not these women inherited their wealth and didn't necessarily have to work for it. So, I am not saying relationships between men and women haven't evolved or changed over time because they have. What I am saying is that there are still many folks today who are happily united with their partners and they have no part in what you refer to as gender wars.
Well I thought you denyed it because you said that maby it's not due times... or maby I missunderstood the part, but yeah, anyways.
I'm not looking to settle in. Nor do I expect the party girls and balantly sexy women to even want a relationship. I don't even want relationship, as I've explained a relationship needs much more than physical attractiveness. And I do love to live by my own and do what I want and i don't need anybody next to me to tell me how good I am. Allthough it's a plus but not the goal because I have a great selfesteem and strong personality. Even if i bitch here
ofcourse women study and work these days and they should, everyone should, more power to them. Do you know Griselda Blanco? She was the richest woman, and possibly person who ever lived. I think she had satans aid even she was so rich. She was the cocaine queen who took Pablo Escobar under her wings. She made Pablo look like a poor man actually, that's how wealthy she is. And from all cocaine kings and princes, she is still allive actually. Pablo is the most well known cocaine hustler in the world, and it's strange allthough Griselda was the god queen of it all, she is the least known... that's also the reason I think she had satans aid because some of her stuff was ridiculous, BUT that's another story!
That's not my point.
Many women now days are
kind of confused because of their ability to have these "masculine qualities", they see that they are free to do whatever they want and are also
encouraged to do so.
- Let me try to explain my anger towards modern women as simple as I can;
Obviously a man has to be manly to a woman, allways been like that, just like a woman has to be feminine. BUT NO! If you are manly then you must be some sort of douchebag and you think you can control women and tell them what to do, mm-hm, na-ah, WOMAN HAS A RIGHT TO BE STRONG TOO!
Being very athletic allways pleases the eye of a woman and she can also tell the girls that she met this nice guy with a stunning bod. BUT NO! If you're athletic it must mean that you try to compensate for the lack of education and business success, or maby a small man complex down there, maby you just plain hate women because you try to look so good and try to seduct women with your prety eyes, huh?! WOMEN DESERVE BETTER!
If a man is not manly and atletic it's not good either because... then you're not manly and athletic
!!! DOH!!!!
It's allways good to be well educated so that you will have easyer time to develop yourself in society, obviously because everything now days requires some sort of college degree, even if you want to establish your own business. BUT NO! It must mean that you have no soul and no personality and try to buy women! WOMEN DESERVE BETTER!
Women don't need no extreme men from left to right, they just want a well balanced guy who is independant and loves life and is pleasent to the eye and doing his own thing and has a very good personality and charisma. BUT NO! It must mean he's a player! No man is like that, he must have 100 girls, na-ah, A WOMAN DON'T NEED NO PRINCE CHARMING, BECAUSE I'M A QUEEN!
A man sees a woman in trouble, she is being attempted in rape and beating. Another guy goes to her aid by beating the criminal to a pulp. OH YOU ARE SO VIOLENT, WHY DID YOU HAVE TO DO THAt THAT IS WAY OVER BOARD, I'M LEAVING!
There it is... that's how women are now days, also the older generation are coming confused if they lacked balanced youth because they try to "fit in". Media constantly bombards the mass consumers and sheep in fashion, music and art. have you seen the fashion industry for men? The fashion industry tells me I have to be a woman fearing metrosexual. But if I am that, THEN I AM TOO FEMININE, WOMEN WANT REAL MEN! But I allready explained how THAT IS NOT GOOD EITHER!
So men will run away from fire to another fire and is constantly under, well, FIRE, lol
Maby some has it easyer, i dunno. But even my friend bitches sometimes about women how absurd they are now days. And I allways tell him I FUCKING TOLD YOU, why won't you believe me, I'm not over exaggerating. My friend is the complete opposite of me, mind you, but even he feels it sometimes.
